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I was used by a guy..how do I get over the fact my judgment was so wrong?

Q.   I am feeling bad about my incorrect judgement. I befriended a guy who came across genuine and caring. We knew each other for about 3 weeks...talking and texting regularly. Then we became intimate. After that time he has not contacted me, even though ...

A.   5 May 2007: Get to know someone longer than 3 weeks, e.g. 2 months before getting intimate. Its the ones that come across genuine that are sometimes rats! Hint: Weed out the rats by suggesting to do things like going out rather than things leading to intimacy... (read in full...)

He says: There is nothing a woman can offer me, because I have everything I need so she would have to be the "WHOLE PACKAGE"... views?

Q.   I am dating a guy who said, There is nothing a woman can offer me, because I have everything I need so she would have to be the "WHOLE PACKAGE" I am not sure how to take this. Part of me thinks this is a great thing because he is confident and he ...

A.   5 May 2007: He is full of it, I have never met a) a satisfied guy??? b)someone on this planet who's the whole package I think someone is spinning carp to you, you should not be so gullible to believe this garbage, everyone in a society is not satisfie... (read in full...)

I need to understand the male psyche... why is he suddenly hanging out with his mates more?

Q.   Am I overreacting about my BF hanging out with his friends more lately? My BF and I have been dating for 3 years. He has been hanging with his buddies alot more lately because he just bought a house. I would appreciate guys opinions on this. Wh...

A.   5 May 2007: Basically nothing turns me off, because i'ma 36 year old guy who would be smart enough to put his ladies wants before 'my mates'. Seriously if he's hanging out with mates and not seeing you more than or equal to three times a week, then you have a ... (read in full...)

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