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Feel like she's loving me less...help!

Q.   I feel like my girlfriend of a year and a half is slowly starting to love me less. How can I fix this?...

A.   28 March 2008: You can't. You can't make someone force themselves to love you, or a secret magic love potion. You could try being more intimate, doing small things she likes (ie. buying flowers..etc)...showing her you love her...etc. But, if she doesn't feel the ... (read in full...)

We've been together for 5 months yet I'm still shy and stuck for words when he is around.....please help!

Q.   Well for starters im 14 and he is 15 i am an EXTREMELY shy person and we have been together for about 5 months and i dont know what it is but everytime i am around him im speechless! i dont know why so could you give me some advice about How NOT to ...

A.   25 March 2008: ahah. oh to be in love as a teenager. I'm guessing he is your FIRST love? This usually happens with the first, or anyone we feel really strongly about. There's no way you can overcome shyness other than keep spending time with him and when you ... (read in full...)

Am I being used or does he secretly like me?

Q.   Me and this guy have been friends for a while and I'm very attracted to him. I used to try and get it across that I like him. I asked him on a date, and thought it went well, but he never asked me to go on a date after that and I stopped pursuing ...

A.   7 February 2008: If he just spooned you, I wouldn't say it was a big deal, since there was no kissing or sex. He didn't pursue you for a second date, he's in a relationship and he said sorry for spooning you. I think it's safe to say, he's not using you. But, if you ... (read in full...)

Why am I still in love with him?

Q.   I fell in love back in high school. This guy is imprinted on my brain. I love him. It gives me chills to be in his presence. I try and get the message across that I love him. He talks to me and responds but he never initiates a relationship that ...

A.   6 February 2008: There is no real answer to "why am I still in love." I mean, it's really hard to get over someone you love. But, maybe you have some unresolved issues with him, maybe you feel as if you love him because you haven't "gotten him." Looking at your ... (read in full...)

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