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My ex girlfriend's relationship with her brother in law seemed too cozy to me

Q.   My ex gf 5yrs+ and I just recently broken up few days ago . Long story I went to go visit her for the second time at her place (long distance relationship ) stayed 3 weeks. The first week was hot romance and she couldn't get enough of me and than ...

A.   13 September 2019: I don’t think there is anything seriously romantic or physical going on between your ex girlfriend and bother in law. I think she just gets on well with him and feels more comfortable around him than her other brother in laws. She probably sees him ... (read in full...)

How do you get over a secret broken heart? How do I fall out of love with someone I don't want to, and still see all the time?

Q.   I fell in love with someone from work and now iv got my heart broken and i dont know how to deal with this. There is no way to tell this story that paints me in a good light, and im aware of that, and i guess whats happened to me is Karma for bein...

A.   10 September 2019: You’re relationship might not be as magical and fun as they were when you first met. But this is normal. You started off dating as 2 excited teenagers. Real life happened after this. A mortgage. Bills. Daily stresses. Seeing each other’s daily moods ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend ordered me not to speak to another woman I used to work with. Was she being unreasonable?

Q.   My girlfriend is very possessive of me. She actually ordered me not to talk to another woman because she thinks that woman has designs on me. I used to work with this person and needed to go see her for work related reasons. I have a new job and ...

A.   22 August 2019: I think possessiveness only leads to unnecessary hurt for all of those involved. I think you should stand up for yourself remain polite but stand up for yourself and say that you’ve never been romantically interested in the other woman but you have ... (read in full...)

He said he'd like to be friends and then blocked me. Why?

Q.   Dear Cupid, A couple of months ago I was dating a separated man going through a divorce. He had moved back to his hometown and was setting into his new life with new job etc. I'd also recently gone through a break up. It went really well to be...

A.   22 August 2019: There seems to be a pattern with this guy. You seemed to get on well and have a good time. Then he’d dump you. Then you got back in touch and would hang out again. Then he’d suddenly dump you again. The first time he dumped you should have been a ... (read in full...)

My husband's action toward his family and the way they treat me is making me want to leave him

Q.   I've been married to my husband for about 11 years. He's a very good man and treats me right, but has a weak personality when it comes to his family. We've had alot of problems regarding him staying quiet whenever his mom and his sister hurt me and ...

A.   21 August 2019: It’s great that your husband is nice to you. You have been married a long time and seem happy together a lot of the time. No marriage is perfect. Mother in laws and sister in laws are often mean and nasty. I don’t think you’re ever going to get any ... (read in full...)

How to deal with my feelings when I see the friend I lost

Q.   I still miss someone who I used to be friends with and it has been two years , I just want advice on how to deal with my sadness when I see her . she never told she didn't want to be my friend any longer but it was our mutual friend who told ...

A.   21 August 2019: It’s very upsetting when someone you regard as a close friend suddenly ‘dumps’ you for no clear reason. I think you regarded this girl as your best friend and thought she’d be there for you always. I think you trusted her not to hurt you. So her ... (read in full...)

Should I stay friends with her?

Q.   My close friend really confuses me sometimes. When we get too close she pushes me away...when i go far, she pulls me close. Intially we used to talk a lot over phone chats etc. Now she says she doesnt like it. She used to get jealous of other people ...

A.   2 January 2019: This doesn't sound like it was ever a pleasant friendship. She got jealous of u if u got close to someone else? She fights with you if you don't give her much attention? She's also joked with you about you being her boyfriend. I believe you're ... (read in full...)

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