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We have been going out 8 months, but now he wants to have sex. Should I?

Q.   ive been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months and we really love each other we have a brilliant time and can talk about anything i cant imagine being with anyone else! latley he has brought up the question of sex i dont know if i should because ...

A.   5 August 2007: you shoudnt really be having sex yet, but if are you going to, use contraception. only have sex, if you feel it is the right time for you, and dont feel you have to just because he wants to. only have sex when YOU are good and ready, and dont give ... (read in full...)

Would you continue to date a girl who was sexually assualted by her male friend at a club?

Q.   I have an open question, I've known this girl for a month, Would you continue to date a girl who was sexually assualted by her male friend at a club? She said it was rape, but I didn't think so in my opinion because she doesn't have any anger ...

A.   19 July 2007: coming from somone who has been sexually assualted in the past. The fact that she told you about the assault, should tell you something, as this is not an issue women would lie about. i believe her 100%, and i know what she must be going through. i ... (read in full...)

My Friend who turns out to be a lesbian told my boyfriend I hated him.....

Q.   I need major help!!! My Friend who turns out to be a lesbian told my boyfriend I hated him..... days before my friend told him not to listen to her and he did! Now he won't answer my phone calls or emails, I am speechless and I never thought he ...

A.   19 July 2007: I know this may sound wierd but did you ever think there may be a reason that your friend who turns out to be a lesbian may have done this? There is one main reason that springs to mind and that is she wants you all to her self. Though you may not ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend broke up with me three weeks ago under the pretence that she just couldn't be in a relationship at the moment as it was too much pressure...

Q.   My girlfriend broke up with me three weeks ago under the pretence that she just couldn't be in a relationship at the moment as it was too much pressure and she was feeling mentally screwed up in a way that prevented her doing so. We argued about it ...

A.   19 July 2007: in all honesty it sounds to me that you've had a lucky escape, trust me people with mental health issues can be bad but you will find someone who will love you just be patient. as for you so called friend if he had respected you at all he wouldn't ... (read in full...)

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