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How can I cope with the hurt and anger about her emotional affair? It's like pulling teeth to get her to admit that what she did is wrong!

Q.   I am in a lesbian relationship of five years and my girlfriend started to fall for a male coworker. We went to therapy and it turns out she had inner issues about her parents not accepting our relationship because of their Indian values (she has ...

A.   30 May 2008: Thank you for all of your posts, even if I did not agree with what you had to say. I gratefully appreciate the selflessness you have shown by providing me with different viewpoints on your own time. Here is an update: I have decided to not t... (read in full...)

We know what a 69 is but whats a 35?? Are there any more numbers that mean sexual acts??

Q.   me and my friend were wondering whats 35, we know whats a 69...and would there happen to be more of these that mean sexual acts??...

A.   29 May 2008: Maybe a 35 is where the man is a three, erect and unsatisfied, while the 5 is the woman facing the other direction after 3 said something stupid during sex.... (read in full...)

Been sleeping with my friends father. What do you think I should do?

Q.   Hi cupid, I am in a really hard situation. ok my best friend and I are really close we do everything together. I am 16 and she is 17. I really don't have much of a family of my own my dad left us and my mum spends more time at the pub getting ...

A.   29 May 2008: Aw, your situation is horrible. 16??? 44??? This is not okay. Anonymous is right, he is using you. See, what happened is that you are a teenager who got caught up in a situation driven by your confused desires for a father role figure. The 44 year ... (read in full...)

How can I cope with the hurt and anger about her emotional affair? It's like pulling teeth to get her to admit that what she did is wrong!

Q.   I am in a lesbian relationship of five years and my girlfriend started to fall for a male coworker. We went to therapy and it turns out she had inner issues about her parents not accepting our relationship because of their Indian values (she has ...

A.   29 May 2008: Thanks again for your replies. My girlfriend is bisexual, but I then again, so am I. Here is the thing, we all have fantasies once in a while that pop into our head about other people. This does not mean that we should just run wild with them every ... (read in full...)

I have a friend that takes things as her own ideas/opinions.

Q.   I started drawing and was in this art class and she was admiring my drawings. Soon after she started painting. I was not angry at this because I felt that it was something we could enjoy together. Soon after we started painting on the walls in ...

A.   29 May 2008: Hi there, I am sorry to hear that you so happen to have picked a friend who has certain issues. Honestly, I do not think this behavior is going to vanish. I am not sure how old the both of you are, but it sounds as though you might be realizi... (read in full...)

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