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When your boyfriend plays video games for hours and hours a day does it turn anyone else off?

Q.   When your boyfriend plays video games for hours and hours a day does it turn anyone else off? My boyfriend and I live together, and he is always on, and when he isn't doing that it's porn. His love of video games is so juvenile and puts me in a...

A.   28 May 2008: i know how you're feeling! seriously my partner plays about 6 hours a day on World of Warcraft and it makes me so angry! as I see it you have several options: 1) dump him and find someone else who respects you and sees you for the lovely perso... (read in full...)

I constantly want sex! Is there something wrong with me?

Q.   Help! I think im addicted to sex. Me and my bf have a great sex life but i think about sex all the time. Even at work. I suddenly get really horny without anything even triggering it! I masturbate every day (sometimes more than once) and even s...

A.   30 April 2008: This may sound random but are you on the pill or medication? sometimes that can cause changes in sex drive! It might be annoying but enjoy it while you can love, or invest in some good toys ;)... (read in full...)

Secretly bi because my boyfriend is a little homphobic-Do I tell him?

Q.   Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months now - and its fantastic. Generally. We barely argue ever, but everypne has their ups and downs. ANYWAY. I'm bi. My first 'relationships' (continuous hookups for several months?) were with my two...

A.   28 March 2008: darling, if he doesnt accept you for who you are then he isnt the guy for you! tell him you are bi and you are attracted to women BUT (and emphasise this bit) you are faithful to him and would never cheat! ... (read in full...)

Is it normal that I still visit my friend's grave?

Q.   is it normal that I still visit my best friends grave even though hes been gone for 8 years he died of leukemia and my friends say that its not healthy to think about the deacesed, but im happy and talk to him even though he cant hear me I like to ...

A.   28 March 2008: its fine to remember someone who died a long time ago (i miss my grandad who died four years ago all the time!) and likewise there is nothing wrong with laying flowers and visiting their grave, as long your grief doesnt dominate your life If yo... (read in full...)

Is it bad to still be a virgin at 13?

Q.   I'm a 13yr old girl and I'm still a virgin.Is this bad?I'm worried about me because my friends are already having sex with boys at 13 and 14....

A.   28 March 2008: its definately not bad! there is no normal when it comes to the age you lose your virginity: the average age was 13 at my school but 19 at my BF's college! I know there can be a lot of pressure but finding the right person is worth the extra wa... (read in full...)

Is it bad to still be a virgin at 13?

Q.   I'm a 13yr old girl and I'm still a virgin.Is this bad?I'm worried about me because my friends are already having sex with boys at 13 and 14....

A.   28 March 2008: its definately not bad! there is no normal when it comes to the age you lose your virginity: the average age was 13 at my school but 19 at my BF's college! I know there can be a lot of pressure but finding the right person is worth the extra ... (read in full...)

Is it bad to still be a virgin at 13?

Q.   I'm a 13yr old girl and I'm still a virgin.Is this bad?I'm worried about me because my friends are already having sex with boys at 13 and 14....

A.   28 March 2008: it's definately not bad!... (read in full...)

His addiction to video games is causing problems! What can I do?

Q.   hey people out there, well i need help my boyfriend is addicted to video games and it annoys me so much. i hate video games because with one of my ex it got between our relationship. and i don't want that to happen to me and him. because i love him ...

A.   1 March 2008: ive got the same problem as you, except he's 20! Have you spoken to him gently about how his gaming is affecting you? he might not be aware of it yet. you could play with him: he'll think its hot and you might learn to love it. you never know.... (read in full...)

Is it true that men prefer women of lower IQ than them?

Q.   I read an article in Metro which said (although it was at Valentine's event for geeky Massachusetts Institute of Technology students) that men often prefer to have sex with a woman of lower IQ. Do you think that's really true, because I know som...

A.   16 February 2008: I read a similar article in Marie Claire, and while everyone likes to feel smart every now and again I dont think its true. It ultimately depends what you want out of a relationship ( a cute partner you can look after? a meeting of minds?), and ... (read in full...)

He works part time and when he has time off he says he needs alone time. All he does is play video games!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for six years we rarely see each other, he works part time and when he has time off he says he needs alone time. All he does is play video games! I don't know what to do. We talk for hours every day on the ...

A.   16 February 2008: hmm this is a tricky problem. I live with a boyfriend who plays WoW most nights and it can be very aggravating. Last summer We lived several hours apart so I was in the same situation as you (phone calls in the evening, work / games in the day. ... (read in full...)

Boys consider me ugly and I feel very low about it, whereas the school regulation does not allow make up or other forms of embellishment. What can I do?

Q.   i am really ugly, i am dark and my hair is sooo curly and frizzy... my face gets so oily and it looks really bad..we wear uniforms in school and not allowed make up although i do put eyeliner...and im not allowed to straighten or colour my hair or ...

A.   16 February 2008: 1) Dont let them get you down. if they are shallow enough to get put off by oily skin then they arent good enough for you! that said, if you drink enough water and change cleanser that'll probably sort it out. 2) Curly hair is as beautifu... (read in full...)

Do Girls Really Like it When A Boyfriend Writes Them a Poem?

Q.   I have a question for all you good natured girls? If I were to write a poem to a girl telling her that I wish she was mine; that, I would protect her; that, I would hold her in my arms when she is cold; that, I would wipe her tears away when she is ...

A.   16 February 2008: obviously it depends on the context and the girl! but im sure you know already if she is the sort of girl who would like a poem written for her ;) I'd like it lol!... (read in full...)

What can I do?

Q.   I have a problem with my boyfriend, I feel that he is going too fast for me I am constantly stressed out. I want a relationship with him but my mum and dad won't let me, they don't want me to see him but I do, I want to be there for him. He has a ...

A.   16 February 2008: oh dear hon, you seem to have a lot on your plate at the moment! have you thought of getting counselling to try and sort your head out? If your bf is making you stressed tell him you need him to cool off a bit, and if he loves you he should unde... (read in full...)

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