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i am 25 and married with 5 children, i have been through a hell of a lot over the years including but not limited to domestic abuse, rape, all things kids, abortion, self harming and so on, i hope to be able to help others.

I need some advice on the way to handle relationships...

Q.   Hi, I am stupid as far as handling relationships are concerned. I don't know if I am too weak emotionally but I tend to give away control to other person quite easily. Sometimes, what happens with this is the other person manipulates and u...

A.   24 August 2005: omg this sounds awfully like myself. you never realise that your letting people walk all over you till its to late do you? do what i did. take control its your life not your families or friends if they cant accept that you can take control of your ... (read in full...)

No feelings for my husband any more...

Q.   Hi.. I need help to understand relationships. Is this the way most people behave, is it acceptable? I have been married for 18 yrs, 2 kids (16 and 13). The first year was OO, the rest have been acceptable. We did split up for 6 months 15yrs ag...

A.   24 August 2005: in a nut shell u have to leave if not for your own sake then for the kids. when i was growing my parent swere at each others throats all the time . all this silence and arguing get u know where and undermine your confidence. u obviously dont love ... (read in full...)

With such a low opinion of himself, my boyfriend thinks I'm "better off" without him...

Q.   I am 25 and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years, but we were friends for about 4 years previous to that. Last night he said he was unsure he wanted to stay with me anymore, and that I'd be better off on my own. I asked ...

A.   24 August 2005: i think your boyfriend has low self esteem alothough some men use this excuse as a get out clause. i feel that because his ex partner cheated on him he may be wondering why you are still with him as you say he has a low opinion of himself. have you ... (read in full...)

We both know that my weight gain is why we're not intimate...

Q.   Since I met my boyfriend (7 yrs ago) I have gained forty pounds. More lately. I know that he is not finding me attractive at all because we would be physical in the past at least 3-4 times a week. Now it is more about once a month. It used to be ...

A.   24 August 2005: first thing first being overweight myself i know all to well of your problems you are not alone. i had similer issues with my husband , when i finally had the courage to talk to him about it and after many hurtful words and tears he finally admited ... (read in full...)

What's wrong? I've never, ever had an orgasm...

Q.   Okay, I have never in my life had an orgasm. What is wrong with me? I won't let a guy go down on me or touch me much. I have never been sexually abused or anything so what is wrong with me?...

A.   24 August 2005: you dont state your age? nothing is wrong with you, you are perfectly normal alot of woman never have an orgasm . the more you think about the more pressure you feel and you become tense, try to relax. can you orgasm on your own? i personally dont ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend and I might not deal with our children the same way. Should I wait to see if it's a problem?

Q.   I have been dating a man for almost 2 years we live about 1 hour and 30 minutes apart . We both had previous failed marriages resulting in children and we are having some issues with the kids. I don't know if we want the same things and feel ...

A.   24 August 2005: its always a tough one this i went through a similer thing with my husband when we moved in together we tended to clsh on almost everything but i found the best way to deal with this is to talk to your partner about what is concerning you do it at a ... (read in full...)

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