My husband has no morals
Q. I recently found out that my husband of 3 years has basically been cheating on me with several different ladies since we met (6 years ago) he has not had affairs as such but flings and emotional affairs, I found out a year ago he did this in his ...
A. 12 November 2009: he wont darling, he seems kind of selfabsorbed man, that doesnt give a shit for peoples feeling. I so sorry it took so long for you to figure out. You are still young and you have a whole life in front of you. I know its hard to make big changes ... (read in full...)
Is being friends with an ex that still loves you cruel?
Q. Is being friends with my ex too cruel if she's still in love with me after 5 months broken up?...
A. 12 November 2009: i dont know if its cruel or not. The fact is that if you be friends with someone that loves you romanticly, even without knowing, you are going to be giving her hope. So, it might be worse for you, because you like having her as a friend, but ... (read in full...)
He's a great guy but...I've lost respect for him! Help, I'm disillusioned here!
Q. Simple to explain my situation, but don't know what to do about it. I have a partner who is a good guy I've know for 15 years and we've been together 10 years. I think he genuinely loves me, although it's never been exactly passionate and I have inc...
A. 11 November 2009: Aside from the facts you mentioned, do you still love him? Do you act like a loving couple, or are you so hurt that you are kind of roomates now? Ask yourself these questions, because depending on the answers, there could be no dillema.... (read in full...)
I waste so many opportunities and have so many regrets!
Q. Hi, I feel like life is passing me by,im 22 sitting at home when everyone else is out having a good time, enjoying their lives, i feel like i sabotage myself by turing down invitations and making impulsive stupid decisions.I didnt go out tonight ...
A. 11 November 2009: It sounds like depression... I've been there, i did everything you mentioned when i was 21, life was passing by, and i seemed powerless. I just thought i didnt fit anywhere, with anybody. Now days, i think that i was mostly scared to face life, ... (read in full...)
I am isolated from friends and family, and my boyfriend doesn't seem to care about me.
Q. I am in a relationship that I am not happy in. I feel that my boyfriend does not love me or care about me. He does not treat me well. He hits me and says stuffs to me. When he does it he says he is either joking or was angry but if i do anything ...
A. 11 November 2009: Darling, go back to your folks, you dont have to go through this. He's using his power over you, because you dont know anyone there and all that, to treat you badly.
I know that him being your first its kind of hard to let go, you think you will... (read in full...)
He is complicated...drinks a lot and ignores me for days! What can I do?
Q. Since the beggining he messed up. Stood me up, would make plans and ended up getting drunk, getting drunk all time,even once when we argued and i left,he spent the night with hes ex (but this happened in the first week we met, not a relationship ...
A. 11 November 2009: Thanks a lot for the advices. I guess i knew all along that’s what I’ve gotta do, but i needed to read this. I really appreciate it.
Just some things that i wanna add:
I kind of already left him 5 months ago. I got an oversea job proposal... (read in full...)
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