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If he can't even stick his tongue in my mouth, what good is having a "normal" sex life????

Q.   My husband wants to start having a normal sex life with me, but he won't even french kiss me or start making out with me. His idea of foreplay as he told me would be to do the "69" position. The bottom line is he is willing to do anything sexually ...

A.   31 August 2010: Hi Miamine, I just read your post and I agree with you on a lot of fronts about this. Today I had a very good talk with my husband. I told him that he definitely needs to go talk to a therapist about this problem. He seemed to be maybe just a litt... (read in full...)

If he can't even stick his tongue in my mouth, what good is having a "normal" sex life????

Q.   My husband wants to start having a normal sex life with me, but he won't even french kiss me or start making out with me. His idea of foreplay as he told me would be to do the "69" position. The bottom line is he is willing to do anything sexually ...

A.   31 August 2010: Hi Miamine , I just read your feedback. You have hit the nail right on the head. Even though he denies being anything but hetero-sexual, he still has the internet porno problem that he has not been able to over-come, in the past 11 yrs that we ... (read in full...)

If he can't even stick his tongue in my mouth, what good is having a "normal" sex life????

Q.   My husband wants to start having a normal sex life with me, but he won't even french kiss me or start making out with me. His idea of foreplay as he told me would be to do the "69" position. The bottom line is he is willing to do anything sexually ...

A.   30 August 2010: Hi new_joe6, I have asked my husband about his past, pertaining to any child molestations, that might have been bestowed upon him. He tells me that he has never had any thing happen to him, of that nature in his child hood. Second of all, he won't... (read in full...)

If he can't even stick his tongue in my mouth, what good is having a "normal" sex life????

Q.   My husband wants to start having a normal sex life with me, but he won't even french kiss me or start making out with me. His idea of foreplay as he told me would be to do the "69" position. The bottom line is he is willing to do anything sexually ...

A.   30 August 2010: Hi Gamine, Thank you for your supportive feedback and words of wisdom. My marriage is definitely a dysfunctional one. Even though my husband does show me love in other ways, and is very protective of me, he cannot seem to solve his problems of roma... (read in full...)

If he can't even stick his tongue in my mouth, what good is having a "normal" sex life????

Q.   My husband wants to start having a normal sex life with me, but he won't even french kiss me or start making out with me. His idea of foreplay as he told me would be to do the "69" position. The bottom line is he is willing to do anything sexually ...

A.   29 August 2010: Hi Blackhearts, Thank you for responding back, with an apology. Yes, I do agree that I wasn't clear in my communication when I said that my husband "will do anything else with me sexually," minus the kissing part. I can see how you would think that... (read in full...)

If he can't even stick his tongue in my mouth, what good is having a "normal" sex life????

Q.   My husband wants to start having a normal sex life with me, but he won't even french kiss me or start making out with me. His idea of foreplay as he told me would be to do the "69" position. The bottom line is he is willing to do anything sexually ...

A.   29 August 2010: Hey Blackhearts, After reading your feed back, I can certainly see why you think that I am insecure and insensitive. The kissing part being not a big deal and all. Try putting yourself in the shoes of a woman (myself) who has been rejected by her ... (read in full...)

If he can't even stick his tongue in my mouth, what good is having a "normal" sex life????

Q.   My husband wants to start having a normal sex life with me, but he won't even french kiss me or start making out with me. His idea of foreplay as he told me would be to do the "69" position. The bottom line is he is willing to do anything sexually ...

A.   28 August 2010: In response to blackhearts, yes I have spoken to him about this problem a lot of times. Spending quality time with him is not going to solve this problem. That's because he told me point blank that he "is just not that into kissing." The sexual ... (read in full...)

If he can't even stick his tongue in my mouth, what good is having a "normal" sex life????

Q.   My husband wants to start having a normal sex life with me, but he won't even french kiss me or start making out with me. His idea of foreplay as he told me would be to do the "69" position. The bottom line is he is willing to do anything sexually ...

A.   28 August 2010: No, not really. We french-kissed really only 3 times in the whole 11 years that we have been together. Like I mentioned, he does not have a romantic bone in his body. He likes to hug and snuggle, grab my breasts and maybe do a little groping, whic... (read in full...)

Is he gay because he has issues with kissing his own wife?

Q.   My husband has admitted to me on several occasions, today included that he is just "not that much into kissing." He especially does not like french-kissing. For some reason he finds it to be gross. As a result of our intimacy issues,also due to h...

A.   23 July 2010: Yes, I do agree that although my husband does have deep serious intimacy issues, at the same time our marriage is good in other ways. For example we both really love and care about eachother. We both are available to eachother emotionally. Our ... (read in full...)

Should I hound my husband or just see if he will follow through on what he promised?

Q.   My husband's intimacy issues and sexual hang-ups stem from his addiction to adult pornography websites. He has not been able to transcend his addictions to having a normal sex life with me. This is actually been going on for the past 12 years ...

A.   9 May 2010: Hi Celiaaleta, I just read your response. Your suggestion is not a bad idea. However, sometimes my husband just is "not in the mood" when I try to initiate anything. He happens to be usually pre-occupied or busy with something. As his wife and emot... (read in full...)

Should I hound my husband or just see if he will follow through on what he promised?

Q.   My husband's intimacy issues and sexual hang-ups stem from his addiction to adult pornography websites. He has not been able to transcend his addictions to having a normal sex life with me. This is actually been going on for the past 12 years ...

A.   7 May 2010: Hi Celiaaletta, I just read your response. To answer your question, no, he doesn't prefer porn to me. As I have mentioned, he has a hard-core addiction problem to porn. Just to reiterate, being a porn addict is actually no different than being a dr... (read in full...)

Should I hound my husband or just see if he will follow through on what he promised?

Q.   My husband's intimacy issues and sexual hang-ups stem from his addiction to adult pornography websites. He has not been able to transcend his addictions to having a normal sex life with me. This is actually been going on for the past 12 years ...

A.   6 May 2010: Hi female reader, I just read your answer and needles to say, I disagree with you. First of all, my husbands addiction to internet porn is no fault of mine. He has had this addiction, way long before we met. He is the only one who can fix this prob... (read in full...)

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