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Should I just walk away from this friend from 20 yrs ago as he is married with kids?

Q.   I recently met my best friend from high school after 20 years. I was his first love and he was really in love with me but I never knew about it. He is currently married with kids but says he is not happy in his marriage. Tables have turned around ...

A.   7 October 2007: Holy Matrimony system was established to bring a man and woman together emotionally, physically and spiritually, not just to pay bills, bring kids into this world and pretend to be the perfect couple at parties. Both the partners in the marriage ... (read in full...)

Is our affair all right? He is married but not living with her.

Q.   Well, I am not asking for the "morally right" answer, but just varying opinions. Let me start by saying that neither of us are children, in the 40-50 area. At this point in our lives, we have lived through many different situations, and honestly, ...

A.   7 October 2007: It is honorable of him live up to his responsibilties to the baby, even though it was from an very brief and most likely loveless fling with this girl. I would say go on being friends with him as before and wait and give him time to deal with his... (read in full...)

I want sex but I'm scared. Please help!

Q.   I need help big time. I'm 12 yrs old and my bf is 13. We both want the same thing - sex. But i'm to scared. I feel ready but dont no if i should. He is so understanding n never rushes me he says if i dont want to than he'll wait. We've bee...

A.   7 October 2007: Sex is supposed to be shared with someone you really love and not just because your hormones are kicking. In my opinion you ought to wait a few years before you can appreciate the depth of the interaction. Also remember you never forget your first ... (read in full...)

Married for 3 years, and we just have no connection anymore. What is my future?

Q.   I have been married for 3 years. My wife and I have no connection. We dont sleep together. We havent had sex in 2 years. I dont think she is cheating but she defenetly leans on her friends for emotional support. I love her and she says she loves me. ...

A.   7 October 2007: The effort in trying to save a marriage has to come from both the partners otherwise the effort of one will not have a positive outcome no matter how much the sacrifice is. Try and take a vacation away from the daily routine and give your... (read in full...)

I fear her reaction. Should I ask her out?

Q.   i want to ask a girl out. But i fear on her reaction. I want to do it face to face nothing else. But i just don't know how a kind, shy girl will react if they were told i like her? How would you girls/ladies react to a guy who was your friend a...

A.   7 October 2007: Do you care about her as a friend or just want to go out with her because you will automatically get access to her physically as well if she says yes? You have to figure out your feelings for her before you ask her out. Will you be hurt if she says ... (read in full...)

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