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The ex and me--he was bad but sometimes I forget and miss him!

Q.   I need help getting over my ex! He and I dated for a year and a half, but he ended up being a huge jerk to me and a pathological liar, so I ended it about six months ago. We were on and off for about a month after until I finally cut off all contact ...

A.   11 November 2009: If he's been a jerk and every time u leave him he dosnt change,then he s going to probably going to continue to be a. Jerk. Don't let him hurt u again cus he. Probably will. U have to find some other guy or some thing that makes u happy. It hard ... (read in full...)

How can you tell a guy is really interested?

Q.   why is it when guys like q girl around her they are sweet but in front of their friends they can sometimes be jerks? how can u tell if a guy is genuinely interested in you?...

A.   5 November 2009: Separate him from his friends some times guys feel pressure when it comes to liking girls. He has to deside whether or not to tell his friends because he might be made fun of, He also has to deside if he should make the first move. when a gu... (read in full...)

Let him go and hope for his return or tell him how I feel and ask him to stay and chance ruining our remaining time or just let go?

Q.   My problem is, I am seeing a guy, let's call him 'A', and he is moving to France (both he and I live in London at the moment). I met him through a previous boyfriend of mine, 'C', who I dated for several months, and this prevented me and...

A.   5 November 2009: Do both if he leaves keep in touch so if u still have feeling it won't Be so aquarted... (read in full...)

Help!! Did I do the right thing?

Q.   I thought this guy liked me and he wouldnt tell me so i took the bull by the horns and told him, he hasnt been sure about how he feels about me for months and has told me he will give me an answer soon, i'm so scared... did i do the right thing? and ...

A.   2 November 2009: I think u did the right thing, when guys like a girl they tend their ability to say the right thing. They are very nevious so some times it helps for the girl to make the first move. Good luck.... (read in full...)

I'm getting tired of my boyfriend's friend! What should I do?

Q.   I'm starting to get really agitated with my boyfriend's friend. Let me begin by saying I'm in an LDR. We are five hours away from each other. I have asked him to come to this trip that's two hours away for me and three hours away for him. He said ...

A.   2 November 2009: Its very important to speak ur mind when it comes to a relationship. I agree with ur mother when she says u should tell him not to bring his friend. Be honest with ur boy friend and tell him why u don't want them to come. If ur boy friends frie... (read in full...)

I started wondering what else is out there. Is there something better? Is he the one for me?

Q.   So I am lost and confused. I am 23 years old. I have been in a relationship with my current bf for almost 9 years now. I have never questioned our relationship before, but recently I couldn't help but wonder what else is out there, is there ...

A.   22 October 2009: WSounds like he really loves and cares for u if he did all those things. U know that he loves u right, I think u should ask him to help u explore the seed of doubt. That way u both now what is going on and can help eachother. I think love is bein... (read in full...)

Did I ever mean anything to her?

Q.   About 2 years ago I dated a woman who was just out of a 4 year relationship with a guy she was obsessed with, she was on the rebound, we dated for 5 months, she went back to him and I was heartbroken I was in love with her. To make matters worse , ...

A.   22 October 2009: I don't know much about this matter,All I can say is sorry man… Woman now for the most part how to read guys and I feel bad that she used u. That can be said for woman to. I think u are making a good choice by not contacting her. If some one hur... (read in full...)

A great kiss--fireworks! Now, 3 days later, we haven't talked yet...

Q.   I've been good friends with a guy I met at work for over a year (I now work for another company). He's really out going and fun, but can be shy around women. We tell each other things we've never told anyone else and its great to have such a close ...

A.   22 October 2009: He's probably embarassed. U should give him another day or so to let him work up the courage to tell u how he feels. Then try and talk to him.... (read in full...)

Is it weird to love the taste of a guy's cum?

Q.   is it weird to love the taste of a mans cum? i have been giving oral sex since i was 14 and i have always loved the feeling and taste of when a guy would "finish" in my mouth! i was talking to my friend about it and she said that she would never ...

A.   21 October 2009: If u like then do it. Don't let other people make decshions.... (read in full...)

Was what he did during oral sex wrong?

Q.   ok so my boyfriend always wants me to swallow after giving him oral sex. he says its sexy and it feels better for him. so i dont have a problem with doing this, but just last night, right when he was about to cum, he PUSHED my head down and held me ...

A.   21 October 2009: Hi well I think he's a stupid fuck,And no its not sexy not the way he did it. But I guys its because I tend to be more of gentle man.but if he continues to do stuff like that dump his ass. Much respect Ricco.... (read in full...)

How can I become more outgoing?

Q.   I wanna be more outgoing but i don't know how. I'm really outgoing with some of my friends that I don't go to school with but the group I hang out with makes it feel impossible to be out there and when I try to be people don't seem to like me. What ...

A.   20 October 2009: When I went to school I was like a ghost I went unnotest.when I left I found that the same people that even say hi saw me different because of what I was good at,and that was work. I think u should be ur self like when ur with ur friends out of s... (read in full...)

I need tips on oral sex.

Q.   Hi I need help from all woman who know what they like when it comes to sex. My problem is how to give my lady the great adventure of oral sex. I need tip on how to do so! I love to give her oral but every time I do I feel like I'm letting her down...

A.   7 October 2009: Thank you to the woman who gave tips. Hopefully my Lady will enjoy my new tecniques. If you have more feel free to comment... (read in full...)

I want to have sex whilst I'm spotting, how can I talk to him about it?

Q.   I'm currently on birth control. Its my second month taking it, and now im starting to spot. I know its normal but I really was looking forward to seeing my boo today and having both oral sex and penetration. I know it may sound nasty, but I just ...

A.   7 October 2009: Me personally wouldn't mind about spotting u really wanted sex while u were on ur period then I would casually bring it up to him. Ask him under what circumstances would he not have sex with u,then hit that ur at the end of ur period. It also depe... (read in full...)

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