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Is he insensitive or am I too sensitive?

Q.   My fiance says I'm sensitive, but I think he's just mean. I won't get into a whole lot of background. We've been together for 7.5 years now and I just get upset with him too much I feel. He just does things that get under my skin and it really sucks ...

A.   21 December 2011: No, I'm still working on my degree. He is the one who decided not to go for his, which is fine. And he is supportive of me in school. It's just when we have arguments, which, in my opinion, is way too often, I have a hard time focusing on school. I ... (read in full...)

Is he insensitive or am I too sensitive?

Q.   My fiance says I'm sensitive, but I think he's just mean. I won't get into a whole lot of background. We've been together for 7.5 years now and I just get upset with him too much I feel. He just does things that get under my skin and it really sucks ...

A.   21 December 2011: Thanks for the response guys. I wasn't sure what the response would be. @rainorfire, I'm not so sure about him being jealous. But I do see your point. He has a master's degree and could've gone for a Ph.D. but decided against it so even though, I've ... (read in full...)

I feel distant towards my boyfriend! Its getting worse, Please help!

Q.   I have been with my bf for 2 years. Lately, as in the last year I have felt distant from him, and it gets worse everyday. When I try to sit down and talk to him he either gets mad and says he hears it all the time or he'll laugh and say he's tired ...

A.   20 December 2011: I totally agree with iAmHereToHelpYou. What is he doing texting other women? You need to move on. Stop wasting your time with someone who clearly doesn't respect you.... (read in full...)

Thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend.

Q.   I'll try to be as concise as possible but it will be kind of hard since I'm talking about a 6 year relationship. My boyfriend and I met while in undergrad. I am in graduate school and he has moved with me. Most times our relationship is ...

A.   23 January 2011: @anonymous, Thanks for the thoughtful response. I know your questions are rhetorical but I wanted to answer the one about what I think every morning when I see him. No it's not always negative. It's only negative when we're at odds with each other, ... (read in full...)

Thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend.

Q.   I'll try to be as concise as possible but it will be kind of hard since I'm talking about a 6 year relationship. My boyfriend and I met while in undergrad. I am in graduate school and he has moved with me. Most times our relationship is ...

A.   17 January 2011: @comeonjesus, I think he will say that he wants me but he doesn't act like it sometimes. For example, when I go in to kiss him sometimes, he gives me the cheek. He is probably fooling around but I don't like it and I've told him that. He continues ... (read in full...)

Broke up with boyfriend of 6 years because he wouldn't propose!

Q.   First of all, this really sucks. I have been with my boyfriend for six years and we have been through a lot. I'm currently in graduate school and he moved to be with me. The only problem is he hasn't proposed. It's not like he's one of those guy...

A.   27 September 2010: Thanks for your input, everyone. Tisha-1 thanks to you in particular for taking the time out to write a response. You're right about making the mistake of moving in together. I should've never agreed that he move to be with me without an engagement. ... (read in full...)

Broke up with boyfriend of 6 years because he wouldn't propose!

Q.   First of all, this really sucks. I have been with my boyfriend for six years and we have been through a lot. I'm currently in graduate school and he moved to be with me. The only problem is he hasn't proposed. It's not like he's one of those guy...

A.   26 September 2010: Thanks for the feedback guys. But honestly, if I didn't want to be with him, I wouldn't be in this relationship for 6 years and I wouldn't be posting questions looking for comments and advice. "TasteofIndia" thanks for the thorough response... (read in full...)

Broke up with boyfriend of 6 years because he wouldn't propose!

Q.   First of all, this really sucks. I have been with my boyfriend for six years and we have been through a lot. I'm currently in graduate school and he moved to be with me. The only problem is he hasn't proposed. It's not like he's one of those guy...

A.   26 September 2010: He says that he's waiting for things to line up. He wants to do it his way. OK, well why is it taking so long for things to line up. I do want to be with him and it's not that I want to be married so badly. I want him to tell me and everyone els... (read in full...)

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