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My boyfriend is going on a trip to Florida and didn't invite me to come. I'm thinking of maybe breaking up with him, but I'm scared to make a mistake then??

Q.   my boyfriend is going away to florida for a week with his friend who is turning 21. They're going to stay at his other friend's apartment when they get there. We've been together for three months now and i do love him a lot but i don't think it's ...

A.   27 December 2007: Hes only 21, he is entitled to have holidays with his friends. You have an insecurity problem, which will ruin all your relationships. If hes the right one, he wont cheat on you. Why dont you go on holiday with your mates? i suggest you get a bit ... (read in full...)

Is this kind of fighting my fault?

Q.   I am in a loving but emotional rollercoaster of a relationship that can get verbally abusive and extremely hurtful. It's been 3 years and we are both tired of it, recognise the problem, but somehow haven't worked out a way of dealing with it. Let ...

A.   26 December 2007: This isnt a healthy relatonship is it? It is not going to last. I see him as a control freak, i was with a guy like yours for years. Hot and cold,Get rid of him. He makes you out to be needy. You get tearful for not being understood and having your ... (read in full...)

My lesbian crush is giving me mixed signals

Q.   I recently discoverd im gay (im female and 19 years old)and have strong feelins for a friend but im not sure if she feels the same. Shes also gay only a few years older. we text everyday some days loads but then other days she goes wierd. she knows ...

A.   6 July 2007: Hi ya, i think quite a lot of us at one time or another, do get strong feelings for our closest budds. Is it worth risking your friendship for? if it was going to happen it would have by now. Count your blessings you have a good mate. What if all ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend lied to me about her past relationships, should I stay or should I go?

Q.   My girlfriend and I recently went through a break-up. We did our fair share of dirty deeds while we were seperated, but when we got back together we asked each other about the things we had done(not really the best idea we ever had). I told her of ...

A.   6 March 2007: Her past is HER past. Move on ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my ex how I feel when she comes over?

Q.   Me and this girl have been broken up for about 4 years now. We hooked up when I was a freshman and we fell in love. She was a senior and she had more experience than I had with relationships especially ones that were gay relationships. Well I ended ...

A.   21 December 2006: No, i dont think you should say a word. If you loved her that much it wouldnt have taken you four years to say. Perhaps at this vunerable moment for her you are feeling a little guilt for leaving her. Just support her though this bad time and ... (read in full...)

I have a crush on my dance teacher... could it be he likes me or did I read to much into it ??

Q.   Well, here's the thing, I have a crush on my dance instructor (cute, ha :-)). Anyways, I've been seeing him for the past few months once or twice a week and, well, he's been acting pretty weird. At first, he's been giving me really a lot of ...

A.   21 December 2006: Be straight and honest.when we fancy someone often a load of gabble comes out! your not the first or last believe me! Get the courage girl you can do this!! Tell him, hes not a mind reader... (read in full...)

How do I move on from my break up? How do I meet someone who even begins to compare?

Q.   ive had a lot of help from this website, now I REALLY need some please!! My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday. We had been on a break and he now says he is pretty sure we dont have a future together. We had been together 2 1/2 years, and altho...

A.   20 December 2006: We think no one can compare,its only cause we get used to them.I am getting over a long term relationship and its very hard. Id rather be on my own than have somebody treat me like dirt. You can be better than this,go for life girl and be strong and ... (read in full...)

I'm split w/ my wife and fell in love with a girl 16 years younger - is this just a mid-life crisis?

Q.   hi i would like to get some opinions from you i wonder can any of you help me with this quistion.i have just walked out on a 21 year marrige and left behind me a wery loving wife and grown up kids my youngest is 13 and oldest is almost 22.i fell in ...

A.   8 December 2006: Its sounds a bit crazy but we only have ONE life. Your wife may have been very loving, it didnt stop you leaving your marriage though did it! Your kids may resent you for a while but if it feels right then go for it. I left my husband and im ok with ... (read in full...)

My fiancee and I are having a baby but my heart is with someone else!

Q.   Shew relationships, why do they have to be so complicated. I have got myself in a bad situation. To make a long story short...Im in love with a guy thats with someone else, and I am also with someone else. I am also pregnant with this guys baby that ...

A.   1 December 2006: Please,for your sake and your child DO not get married. I know this has to be hard for,i went though similar situation and did get married. It has been a long and greuling divorce.Two years later im still paying for my mistake.Do not worry what ... (read in full...)

I choke the chicken over my friend's younger sister!

Q.   I'm 19 and I was round at my friends house who's the same age as me for the first time and I met her sister there. The problem is that she is 14 (in year 10) and I find her attractive. I've ended up thinking about her when I'm masturbating! But, ...

A.   30 November 2006: Its quite normal to fantise over young girls,your a normal healthy man.You will be masterbating about someone else by next week! just good with your imagination thats all.Not pervy,dont fell guilty.... (read in full...)

I'm 25 and fit... She's 23 and has piled on the pounds... how do I fix this?

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years now, earlier this year we unepectedly had a kid. I love my daughter and girlfriend very much but my girlfriend and i are suppose to marry next year and my girlfriend has piled on the pounds like no business ...

A.   30 November 2006: You have to ask yourself"do you love this girl?" i suspect she already knows shes piled on the pounds. Either give her some encouragement to lose it,she looking after YOUR child isnt she,has got any time for herself to go to the gym?perhaps give her ... (read in full...)

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