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I am becoming an angry person around my husband. What can I do to change this?

Q.   Hello I have been married for 3 yrs. I'm at home and even though I don't work I do everthing and I take care of our baby. He goes to school Monday and wed all day and I don't see him till 9ish. I miss him a lot and find that I'm lonely but every ti...

A.   14 February 2012: Marriage and parental responsibility have happened quite quickly for you. How old is your baby? It is possible that you are suffering from depression and should possibly see your doctor and discuss your situation. Practical things you can do to ... (read in full...)

My married lover is flirting with another woman in front of me

Q.   I am a 34 year old female and I have been with this guy for almost 9 and a half years. He is my colleague and we still work together. However, when I met him, he was already engaged to be married, and although we loved each other, he still got ...

A.   7 February 2012: This is a very difficult situation for you, unfortunately all those replies posted already are right. This man is ultimately a "cheat and a liar". Why is any one's guess, men behave in this fashion for any number of reasons often due to issues of ... (read in full...)

Twice my age but interested, curious but nervous

Q.   So to make a long story short, I am 22 and my boyfriend for 3 years and I broke up just before the new year (2012). Shortly there after, one the regular customers at the restaurant I work at, whom I talk to on a daily basis and have gotten to know ...

A.   7 February 2012: Age does matter unfortunately, apart from the obvious physical differences there are other underlying problems that often surface as relationships develop. You are 22yrs old I asssume from your letter that this man is considerably older and holds a ... (read in full...)

If a married man and a woman have an affair, can the woman be blamed as well?

Q.   If a woman and a married man have an affair, is it the woman's fault as well? Obviously, it is the man's fault, but is the woman to blame as well as a home-wrecker? I have heard the defense of the woman saying "It was his choice to go after m...

A.   5 February 2012: It is common to blame "the other woman", suggesting that the "poor man" was a victim of her wiles and was powerless to resist her charms. The truth is that the man most often is actively looking for a liason, to alleviate whatever difficulties exist ... (read in full...)

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