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I'm from Ireland, living with my partner of two and a half years. I've always been introspective and have been considered ny friends and colleagues as a good listener who offers sound advice. In college I studied Philosophy, English, Psychology and Archaeology. I have followed up my interest in Philosophy by taking several courses with the School of Economic Science and Practical Philosophy in Cork. I'm artistic and very spiritual. |
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He's not yet dumped his other girlfriend!!!
Q. My boyfriend has a secret and it's about him not dumping his girlfriend from his old school, should I finish with him or not see him? I thought about it and I don't want to finish with him because I love him ...
A. 10 March 2008: I wouldn't even give him a week. You don't need someone who cheats on you before you even begin. Be careful not to fall for the bad boy trap. There are too many good guys out there who are without girlfriends because girls equate love with drama and ... (read in full...)
Married for 2 years and have not had sex with my husband. What's going on?
Q. I have been married for 2 years and never had sex till now..My husband loves me unconditionally but when it comes to sex,we just have romance and that's it he stops there and dozes off to sleep..When i visit doctors i feel embarrassed to say them ...
A. 5 March 2008: Wow, you poor thing. There's something seriously wrong here all right. Have you tried talking about this? It can be good to talk about these things at an unrelated time, such as while driving in the car (on a long drive), instead of in bed. There ... (read in full...)
Should I prevent my ex that his current gf has a grim past, which includes drugs? Should I express my concerns?
Q. Hey there! I'm thirteen years old and basically, going through possibly (from what I've been told) the toughest time of my life. Anyways, getting to the point. My ex-boyfriend who I broke up with then two weeks later realized I made a horrible ...
A. 5 March 2008: Is the issue here what might happen to him, or the fact that you regret breaking up with him? I know it hurts to see someone you're fond of in a position where they might be hurt, but you can't mother him. He needs to make up his own mind. When we ... (read in full...)
I want to give him more signs that I like him to find out if he reciprocates or it's all in my imagination!...
Q. Right i'm so sorry for the length of this but in order to get a proper answer i need to say everything and need to start from the beginning. Right i'm one of these girls thats never had a bf and never really been bothered about getting one but when ...
A. 5 March 2008: If a guy looks at you and you're staring at him, he's bound to hold your gaze sooner or later - this doesn't mean that he likes you or that he doesn't. I feel your pain, I've been there. You need to bring your focus from what's going on in your head ... (read in full...)
How long does it take for me to wait until she is ready for a serious relationship?
Q. I met this girl online. This girl moved back to my area after a rocky divorce. We met for lunch on the first date. On the second date we went to the beach and had fun. She told me that she is shy about going further down to a serious relationship ...
A. 5 March 2008: How long is a piece of string? I find this an interesting one because I went the internet dating route myself. It's not clear how much time passed between her divorce and meeting you, but very often when people have a break-up and then start ... (read in full...)
Is this a long time to have gone without having sex? I feel... distinct.
Q. I'm uncertain about something. I've gone without sex for 10 months and I'm starting to feel a LOT of withdrawal. Feels like I'm the only person on the planet that isn't having it. It got me thinking... is 10 months a long time to go without...
A. 5 March 2008: I agree with OlderSister and Brooke. Some people have anonymous, random sex just for the sake of it, and some people wait for the right person to come along. And a LOT of people lie about how often they're having it. 10 months isn't a long time at ... (read in full...)
He used me to forget his ex, we broke up and now he returned to say he doesn't want to lose me. Should I give him a chance?
Q. i've have a big problem from year and half ago i used to know a guy who used to be in a relationship, which ended and he was so hurt, he used me to forget his ex girl friend; i used to know his ex relationship and i tryed to help him because i felt ...
A. 5 March 2008: Hi Mimi, The feeling I get from reading your story is that your heart isn't in this potential relationship, but that you just don't want to hurt him. A year and a half was a lot of time to be away from you and then realise that you're the ... (read in full...)
We are totally in love but only 14...is it ok to have sex??
Q. Is it ok to have sex when you are 14 and totally in love with your girlfriend and she is totally in love with you? I will definatley use a condom becasue we really do not want her to get pregnant. I know this probably sounds stupid and an obvious ...
A. 4 March 2008: Hi Chrisj,
While I'm glad that protection is foremost in your mind, (and bearing in mind that there are far worse fates than pregnancy!) I'm afraid I'm going to have to give you the old-fashioned answer.
At 14, no one is ready for a sexual rel... (read in full...)
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