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He used our computer to look at porn, the came to bed to try our what he saw... Now I feel used and defiled!

Q.   I need advice. I found that my husband had been looking at porn on our laptop. It hurt me because I had always promoted openess in our relationship and explained to him how important trust is to have a happy sex and married life. I've experienced ...

A.   4 April 2006: Im afraid to say, its normal for men to look at porn. Dont feel cheated, look at it this way: by looking at porn he is getting ideas on how to please you and different ways which you can enjoy each other. He wont be thinking about them when he is ... (read in full...)

Been married two weeks and I HATE foreplay!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have been married all of two weeks...and I HATE IT when my husband goes down on me. I dont feel like any foreplay activity either...that was not how i really thought i am.I am not too attached yet,but dont have any other romantic p...

A.   4 April 2006: Have you tried talking to him? try explaining that its not him, sometime by giving men the slip they become more determined to have their way! tell him how you feel, say the marriage was a shock to system and you need time to adjust to you new life ... (read in full...)

I have a BIG problem that I would like to get fixed SOON!!!

Q.   i have sadly just found out i have Phimosis, where my foreskin does'nt retract easily i am so pissed off i feel like killing ymself i mean why me? As the holidays are coming up soon i will be goin to my mates caravan he has down by the coast and ...

A.   25 March 2006: just wait, chill out and seek some advice! You dont need to have sex your only 14, there will be many more opportunities as you get older. dont give in to peer pressure, and I know people always say this to girls but it applys to boys too "just ... (read in full...)

Should I persue this relationship with my tutor?

Q.   Hello. I'm a post-graduate student and I'm in another country studying in an exchange program. I have a lot of new teachers...and I think I'm falling in love with one of them. We only had onde nice and big chat and we like and pay attention to the ...

A.   25 March 2006: I think you're treading on dangerous ground, it can be risky for both you and your tutor. You could just be feeling an attachment because of being in a different environment and having this guy being nice to you makes you feel more at home! the ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend was grabbing my boobs, is this wrong?

Q.   I am 15 and I am going out with my first bf. My Mom has told me about boys but the other night when we were kissing he put his hand on one of my boobs but I moved it away. A little bit later he did it again and this time he squeezed and I told him ...

A.   25 March 2006: Its not wrong if thats what you want, but remember you've got plenty of time to experiment as you get older. have clear bonderies and stick to them, it is easy to get caught up in the moment and things could go further than you'd liked, you'll ... (read in full...)

Anyone know how I can improve my relationship with Mum?

Q.   I have a bad relationship with my mother. I'm 18 years old, going to university in Septemeber but right now this relationship makes me feel sad. Last year I had a few problems. I got involved with a teacher at school and my mum found out and ...

A.   25 March 2006: Im sorry but I have to play devils advocate for a minute, you say got into this unhealthy relationship with a teacher... but then you also say your mum helped you through it. You're lucky your mum was there for you! My mum and I where at each oth... (read in full...)

Been married two weeks and I HATE foreplay!

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have been married all of two weeks...and I HATE IT when my husband goes down on me. I dont feel like any foreplay activity either...that was not how i really thought i am.I am not too attached yet,but dont have any other romantic p...

A.   25 March 2006: You havent been married long, you could have set your expectations too high, try and relax with you new husband, intimacy is the key to a good sexual relationship. do things you enjoy together, even if you stay up all night chatting about nothing in ... (read in full...)

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