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Q.   I met this guy almost 3 moths ago online. When we met he had recently just had a major surgery on his spine. When we met and talked about what we are looking for he mentioned his next relationship will be with his best friend. Due to his surgery ...

A.   5 May 2014: We have we have been intimate and every now and then we do casts it's just a guess becoming less frequent he did mention recently that even if we don't end up in a relationship you still does want to be friends I guess right now friends is exactly ... (read in full...)

Should I think our hook up was just a one time thing? I'm afraid to ask him!

Q.   Basically last year I ended up getting involved with my best guy mate, we spent the summer together and then it just ended for stupid reasons and we didn't speak for 8 months. Now we started messaging and we eventually met up. He was cuddling me ...

A.   6 April 2013: Give it some time, see what happens. If you have heard nothing in a few days you got your answer. Or see If he wants to go do something and see what happens, you could realize its just a friendly one time thing... (read in full...)

I made an online profile hoping the guy would figure out it was me. I texted him and now he hasn't texted me back. Now what?

Q.   I met a guy on line. Things were going better then expected. I found out he was still actively on more then one dating website. Even tho I know we owe eacn other nothing yet and he has full right to be dating around. I went on the website and made a ...

A.   6 April 2013: Thank you.... I am not sure what I was expecting when I made this post, but I acted in a crazy way which I am not proud of. Your right I need to learn to go with the flow and need to get my sh!t together. If the rolls were reverse I would be soo ... (read in full...)

I made an online profile hoping the guy would figure out it was me. I texted him and now he hasn't texted me back. Now what?

Q.   I met a guy on line. Things were going better then expected. I found out he was still actively on more then one dating website. Even tho I know we owe eacn other nothing yet and he has full right to be dating around. I went on the website and made a ...

A.   5 April 2013: Yes we have met. I have no clue to what I was thinking to do that. Moment of weakness:(... (read in full...)

How to approach him? Nerves are killing me.

Q.   Hi! I have a big issue! There's this guy who I have been seeing, seeing as in just seeing on the bus for almost a year now. I first noticed him when I was on the bus, and it was a packed bus and I had turned around and caught him looking at me. From ...

A.   11 February 2012: To start I am shy, I for some reason had the biggest fear of guys knowing I liked them. I am still shy to make the first move but sometimes you have to let them know your interested and not just a nice girl. Is there somthing you could "forget" and ... (read in full...)

He is 3.5yrs younger, would it be wrong to date him?

Q.   ....Well I just know this guy, and he's in 9th grade of highschool. We been really good friends for some time now. Everyone says we make a good couple, at first I didn't notice I have this crush on him till now. but..heres the problem. He's 3 1/2 ...

A.   4 December 2010: Age is really not that important even more so once your out of highschool. I would say if you do really like him and he like you should give it a try. You said you were good friends, so maybe try and keep it a secert until you feel comfortable with ... (read in full...)

Relationship addict!

Q.   Hi, How do I get over control issues and trust issues in relationships? I seem to fall from one relationship into the next and they get progressively more and more unhealthy. My currently relationship has been going on for about 2 years and w...

A.   13 November 2010: First anyone who speaks abusivly to you is not worth the time! No One deserves anytype of negitive talk. It sound like your one of those people who seem to value themselfs on the relationship. . .I am the opposite I value myself on what I can do for ... (read in full...)

Misunderstood his email, now he's mad.

Q.   I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months - really like him but he is playing it really cool. So i am playing it cool too. All was fine, then today he sent the following email "my phone just went blank c**t switch it on" I took the c word...

A.   13 November 2010: It was a type. . .if he typed C**T switch it on, who would not take that the wrong way? I would say forget about it you owe him nothing and if he's still mad, tell him he is being a dork and over reacting for his typo! Maybe add in a comment I ... (read in full...)

Do guys like it when girls ask them out?

Q.   Me and this guy have hung out a few times. We made out after a night a drinking. ( we have hung out after ) I like him, I feel he likes me too. I made a comment how I would never go for a guy I work with, but would break the rule for him. Should I ...

A.   12 November 2010: I was not thinking date so much as lets meet for beers and watch a football game. The night we hooked up he invited himself over and we were watching tv and haning out then it happand. . . maybe I should wait. I just dont want to miss out cause I am ... (read in full...)

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