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Should I still try to be her friend, after I broke her trust, or just move on?

Q.   my best friend and i always trusted eachother. however i broke that trust and revealed a big secret of hers to someone else. she found that i revealed her secret, i realised my mistake and apologised. she said that she was angry with me and ...

A.   19 June 2009: to be honest I think your friend is being really mature about things! after all you did break her trust ? instead of her shutting you out completely shes still being your friend but realises your not the kind of friend she trusts telling secrets ... (read in full...)

Should I break up with b/f just because I'm not sure that he is "the one"?

Q.   Im torn between two men, one a boyfriend of 5 years whos great but i just don't think im inlove with him, but hes such a good man and so good to me i don't think its a good idea to give him up! Then another man who im just friends with but we have ...

A.   18 June 2009: well if thats the way you feel then am sure at some point things will fall apart, so yes I think you should just end it. you shouldnt be with someone just because there a nice person, there should be more than that! if you do break up with him I ... (read in full...)

Was it all just a lie?

Q.   I used to love this girl. It went on for about 2 and a half years. At the time I was blind, and really thought things could work out. I screwed up several times. She was never interested. Her attitude towards me went from trusting to cold hearted-...

A.   18 June 2009: If the girl wanted to be with you she would try and contact you! but in my opinion I think lifes too short to be waiting about on someone. just try and relax and have fun ! I bet theres plenty of girls out there who want to be your girlfriend. what ... (read in full...)

How to tell my mother-in-law she can't come at my aunt's funeral?

Q.   My mother in law is a real tag along. She wants to go everywhere with me and my husband. Tomorrow, we're going to my Aunt's funeral. She's not invited because it's intermediate family only; we couldn't afford to have a public funeral. We're ha...

A.   18 June 2009: well I would let your husband do that part, should be easier for him to explain things without her getting offended. if it was my mother I would just say look its just a small get together for family, so maybe you should just stay at home.Am sure ... (read in full...)

She's screwed in the head. Why does she do his?

Q.   This is not help for me, i just really want to know what you guys think is going on in this girls head. I guess im usual old curious george. I know it has absolutely nothing to do with me, but ive been dragged into the situation and so has my ...

A.   17 June 2009: this is horrible ! someone should tell her shes sick and she should pull herself together and stop being a bitch.... (read in full...)

How can I get that cheerful girl back?

Q.   please bear with me and read this people.. i need as many opinions as possible.... i dumped my gf cuz i didnt love her... i deeply care for her though... she has become devastated... lost faith in relationships and has become extremely low esteemed ...

A.   17 June 2009: the girl is obv devastated ! im sorry but i really dont think friendship after a relationship in this situation can work. you may want her as a friend but she clearly cant do that, it still hurts too much and brings too much memorys back of how ... (read in full...)

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