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Does wearing a condom interfere with a man's sexual pleasure?

Q.   I am just being curious. I went out with a guy and he told me that he does not like to wear condom when he have sex as it diminishes his sexual pleasure. So, I always wanted to know, does wearing a condom interferes with a man's sexual pleasure? Is ...

A.   27 August 2011: Yes, it can, because it reduces friction between the penis and anything else. However, stick to your guns. Mutual sexual pleasure is very short term, STDs are long term. Offer to use a female condom, to see if that makes a difference for your man. ... (read in full...)

He wants to give me oral. I'm nervous about it

Q.   So, my boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and have done nothing sexual. He keeps saying he wants to eat me out and I used to be okay with the idea but now I'm kinda nervous that it'll be weird. Any tips? ...

A.   27 August 2011: Anonymous is spot on, however I want to add this: Yes its going to be weird. And awkward. You're going to have to talk him through the first time and its not going to be a magical amazing thing unless he has prior experience and an amazing ... (read in full...)

I feel trapped. What should I do? I've had a threesome and my husband does not know.

Q.   Hi i'm 32 year old wife and a mom with a kid of 3 years old . I'm feeling confused and trapped with a dilemma all because of my mistakes. Almost 3 months before I met a nice and good looking girls who's 23 years at the gym. We had the same gym ins...

A.   27 August 2011: After sleeping on it I wanted to add something else. Cheating, for you, is defined by your husband. IE, if HE thinks its ok for you to be with another woman, its not cheating. It also cuts the other way, IE you don't feel he's cheating on you ... (read in full...)

I feel trapped. What should I do? I've had a threesome and my husband does not know.

Q.   Hi i'm 32 year old wife and a mom with a kid of 3 years old . I'm feeling confused and trapped with a dilemma all because of my mistakes. Almost 3 months before I met a nice and good looking girls who's 23 years at the gym. We had the same gym ins...

A.   27 August 2011: wow. People are really fracking judgmental. There's some good snippets, IE, you need to get yourself tested for STD's and make sure you're not bringing something home to the hubby. Since you don't know whats going on with yourself, I ... (read in full...)

How can I make sex less painful?

Q.   Ok ..so..my new gf and I have had sex several times..she has a very small vagina..I'm an average size fellow..6 to 7 inches somewhere in there..it hurts her a lot..not the girth but the length..is there anything I do ...I would like to not have to ...

A.   27 August 2011: As a woman with a similar problem, let me just say that the suggestions involving positions are good. Also using your hand or her hands as a vagina extender. There's also the fact that vaginal intercourse isn't the end all be all of sex. ... (read in full...)

Is he gay from being in prison or just a weird?

Q.   I have a question about what turns men on. I have been sleeping with a guy for way over a year and recently he asked me to do something in bed that made me wonder and got embarrassed for him. He wanted me to play with his anus. I didn't want to at ...

A.   27 August 2011: A person can't be turned gay, so no, being in prison didn't make him gay. Neither does anal play mean that he's either gay or a freak. Anal play is common amongst heterosexuals, and women can enjoy it as much as men. Even if he asks to be pegged ... (read in full...)

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