Am I fooling myself that we can hold this relationship together long term? Anyone else experience this type of situation?
Q. 30 years ago I was dating a guy who was a male version of me. Stubborn. Determined. Intense. He was my first love and I’d never loved anyone so deeply. I have never been a jealous person but I wanted him all to myself. We’d argue because he hated...
A. 27 February 2018: Aunt honesty who lies in bed thinking about their KIDS in the middle of having sex? No matter who you are with. Well, maybe someone does— but I certainly don’t.
I guess everyone is selfish to a point. Nobody is perfect. Neither am I.
I’m still... (read in full...)
Am I fooling myself that we can hold this relationship together long term? Anyone else experience this type of situation?
Q. 30 years ago I was dating a guy who was a male version of me. Stubborn. Determined. Intense. He was my first love and I’d never loved anyone so deeply. I have never been a jealous person but I wanted him all to myself. We’d argue because he hated...
A. 27 February 2018: Thank you Honeypie. I hear you. In reality though, it’s not as simple as you make it sound. Just tell them— simple. As a mom do I doom my kids chances to go to college, same thing in the other household? Something we’ve worked toward since the... (read in full...)
Am I fooling myself that we can hold this relationship together long term? Anyone else experience this type of situation?
Q. 30 years ago I was dating a guy who was a male version of me. Stubborn. Determined. Intense. He was my first love and I’d never loved anyone so deeply. I have never been a jealous person but I wanted him all to myself. We’d argue because he hated...
A. 26 February 2018: I might have hit send too soon.
Since never speaking to him again is not an option, what to do?
This would be giving up on a person who has loved me unconditionally for decades. I broke this man’s heart and he loved me anyway. How do you just ... (read in full...)
Am I fooling myself that we can hold this relationship together long term? Anyone else experience this type of situation?
Q. 30 years ago I was dating a guy who was a male version of me. Stubborn. Determined. Intense. He was my first love and I’d never loved anyone so deeply. I have never been a jealous person but I wanted him all to myself. We’d argue because he hated...
A. 26 February 2018: Thanks Honeypie. That’s just the thing we aren’t strangers. We were enthusiasts of a specific kind of car when we were together and over the years switched to another kind and 30 years later met each other with the make and same color car. We didn’t ... (read in full...)
Am I fooling myself that we can hold this relationship together long term? Anyone else experience this type of situation?
Q. 30 years ago I was dating a guy who was a male version of me. Stubborn. Determined. Intense. He was my first love and I’d never loved anyone so deeply. I have never been a jealous person but I wanted him all to myself. We’d argue because he hated...
A. 25 February 2018: I had to re read what I wrote. I did not write that it was a perfect situation. It’s a terrible situation that I didn’t expect to be in. I understand that unless you’ve been in this situation— not a random one night stand, or some boredom lust ... (read in full...)
My husband bought a perfume for a colleague.. Is he cheating?
Q. My husband came home from trip abroad. While i was unpacking i saw a burberry perfume i sent him a picture of it.. ang replied” for my colleague”... the perfume is obviously for women. He messaged again he said “ did i do anything wrong?” I felt ...
A. 21 February 2018: I’d let him explain with the nicest, non judgmental look on my face. I’d ask him why he brought her that. Maybe she asked for something duty free. Or she sent him a great client and the perfume was a thank you (still to personal though), Or he ... (read in full...)
Why do men keep long term affairs?
Q. Why do men keep long term affairs? Those that last a year or more? In the end they end up going back to their wives. So I don’t get it. Do they develop feelings for the OP? Do they not love the wives? ...
A. 21 February 2018: In our case we were together long before he got married. We broke up for a stupid reason and we were both too stubborn to ask the other back. Years ago we got back together. We still love each other. So much that we WANT each other’s marriages to ... (read in full...)
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