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Last week he called me and said he loved me but wasn't in love with me...

Q.   Dear cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 11 months. Last week he called me and said he loved me but wasn't in love with me. He doesn't want to break up. He still wants us to be together, and he doesn't want to date other girls. He gave me ...

A.   26 January 2009: It sounds like you are trying to get some answers from him. Perhaps he is feeling a little pressured and ids honest with you. You say that you have been together for 14 years but don't live together.........wow! this would tell me alot. How ofte... (read in full...)

I wantto contact the other woman!

Q.   Okay I think I am completely losing my mind now. For some crazy reason I am having urges to contact the other woman. And not in a mean way either. Maybe it is the whole "keep your friends close and your enemies closer thing"? He wrote her a ...

A.   21 January 2009: I spoke to the OW but this was just after i found out about the affair. This had a good effect. I reckoned that my husband although a slimebag at the time would only pick a fairly nice person to leave me for!! I then thought that if she was half dec... (read in full...)

I allowed her to fall out of love

Q.   10 days ago I found out my wife is having an affair. We've been married for 20 years. She just turned 40 and I am 43. Yes, we got married very young, never had a chance to experience so called "single life". Life was not very romantic with me over ...

A.   21 January 2009: Hi, The story you tell reflects exactly what i have just experienced with my husband of 22 years. This is still fairly new to me and i am still trying to come to terms with this. How old are your children? It is not unusual for affairs to start... (read in full...)

My heart is with my ex and always has been but I am wearing another man's ring...

Q.   Well my situation is very very complicated. I met my true love when I was 16 and we had a child when I was 19. He was 22 at the time and was not ready to settle down so we split and went our seperate ways. I always wanted things to work out ...

A.   20 January 2009: What kind of person are you. You say you are having an affair with your first child's father. This creep walked out on both of you. You are a masochist, he is using you again with no real attachment, it suits him to use you. I bet you anything if ... (read in full...)

My wife of 34 years has left me...

Q.   Yesterday we should have celebrated 34 years of marriage. Unfortunately last Friday 9th, my wife told me that she was unhappy and simply left! It was a very cold conversation, no discussion, no big row, so she'd obviously been thinking about it for ...

A.   18 January 2009: Hi, I have been in a similar situation and it is very painful. My husband started communicating with his x of 30 years ago. She obviously made him much happier than i could in a year that too was stressful. M husband wanted to move out and have some... (read in full...)

Is he worth taking a risk for?

Q.   I have been married for 21 years - two children 17 and 19 - one at university , one at home, Husband is good provider , lovely man but we don't talk, not had sex for months , just can't seem to say two words to each other without one of us snapping. ...

A.   14 January 2009: I have been in the same situation as you. Only my husband took the step to contact his x of 25 years ago. They communicated by texting for months on a daily basis behind my back. I found out and went through emotional hell. I realised that our ... (read in full...)

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