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I'm attracted to women, how do I tell him?

Q.   How do i tell my bf i fantasise about him sleeping with other women? Will he freak out? How will he also react if i were to tell him im bicurious and admire women the same as he does? i dont want to ruin the relationship and he runs a mile. Im ...

A.   29 May 2009: Most men have that as their ultimate fantasy (at least the ones I've known in my life). If you really feel that way, it may not hurt to tell him -get him loosened up by asking him what his fantasies are (when you are having some fun)....start ... (read in full...)

Why is he keeping our relationship a secret from the people closest to him?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been together for 10 years on and off. We lived together for two years, but then i left because i felt empty. He was hurt, and after i left, i wanted him back. We both live seperately now,but are back together. In the ...

A.   29 May 2009: Oh dear....I so know the pain you are going through. I know you love this man and it will rip your heart apart to do what I'm suggesting, but please hear me out. You have already given 10 years of your life (off and on) to a man who will not... (read in full...)

Do I let him go? He now wants children and I still don't

Q.   Please help. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now (I am 37 he is 32). At the start of the relationship we had quite an open conversation in which I said that I had never been that interested in having children and that I felt indifferent ...

A.   29 May 2009: The good news here is that you have been up front about everything from the start and have also been very vocal about it with him throughout your relationship (so there is no surprise here for him). I am sure he is struggling too with what to ... (read in full...)

I'd rather not go if he's flying first class and I have to fly economy

Q.   i have a partner of 2yrs,i love him very much.he goes overseas twice a year for business,and hes asked me to go with him on his next trip.hes always flying first class.and hes collecting all points that he gets from fying 1st class to get me a ...

A.   29 May 2009: Ok seriously -I know there are some folks too that may brush this off, but I find it to be very offensive. This guy is a complete tool -he should either trade his seat with his you or get a seat next to you. Yes, it is nice of him to give you... (read in full...)

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