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My husband has had an affair for the past year.

Q.   5 weeks ago I found out that my husband (we've been married 21 years)had an affair last year. He says that it is over and is trying very hard to make ammends. we talk a lot and are going to relate. He has told lots of lies and last week I found that ...

A.   9 February 2008: I think you need to make a decision. If you want him, do not allow him to go live with her to test it out.. She would obviously treat it as her probation and try to prove to him that she is the one. You should not accept him back after he leaves ... (read in full...)

He recently initiated a separation, without explaining his reasons, as usual! (We dated for a year after 21 years of break.) Is it worth waiting?

Q.   Help,my boyfriend recently told me he does not want this relationship, we were dating for a year, we dated 21yrs ago and we were each others first loves, so after 21yrs he called me and we realised that we were still in love with each other, things ...

A.   8 February 2008: if he is constantly threatening to leave you, it isn't a very healthy relationship. he needs to stop doing that. the next time you have a fight, don't call him to sort things out. don't make all the moves, see what he does. if he doesn't contact you ... (read in full...)

She loves someone else, but what about us?

Q.   Last summer/early fall, I started to suspect that my wife's attention was elsewhere. Especially concerning a really good friend of ours. This guy is in the middle of a terrible divorce with a wife that is being diagnosed with serious personality ...

A.   8 February 2008: Sympathizing with your friend is not going to help your situation. He has still betrayed you by having this kind of relationship with your wife, and not having lots of friends is not an excuse. I think you may be better off keeping away fro... (read in full...)

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