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For five years I worked with a group called "Teen Supporters". In this group I councelled high school students. Many of the students had typical relationship problems that high school students would have. Many of my friends come to me for advice, including my three sisters. I am known for my honesty and insight. I have been faced with relationship struggles of my own, but I have learnt many valuable lessons because of them. I am currently in a new relationship. I live in a beautiful but crazy place, with freezing winters and wonderful warm summers. I love playing soccer, writing, learning(I am currently a university student studying hummanities), snowboarding, traveling, hanging with friends(and boyfriend) and generally having a good time and being happy while doing so!!

My pet peeves??

When people who chew loudly or with their mouth open, when people are unreliable and do not take responsibility for themselves and rudeness(especially to servers at a restaurant!)

Turn ons??

R.E.S.P.E.C.T.!!!(some one who respects themselves, me, everyone around them, nature, ect ect) a sense of humour, a nice smile, sincerity, and the most important of all...some one who I can effortlessly have fun with!!

Can people of different social class date?

Q.   So for the past few weeks I have been talking to this extremely good looking guy in my sociology class. The other day I missed class to study for my criminal justice test and the following class he asked me why I was away. I told him the reason, he ...

A.   28 November 2009: Telling me I'm superficial and a snob is not good advice. But nice try, and thanks for the encouraging from the others!... (read in full...)

Can people of different social class date?

Q.   So for the past few weeks I have been talking to this extremely good looking guy in my sociology class. The other day I missed class to study for my criminal justice test and the following class he asked me why I was away. I told him the reason, he ...

A.   27 November 2009: Hey thanks guys. I dont really care about social class, if you like some one, you like them regardless! But anyways, its hard for me to explain the situation. For example, he went to the only private boys school in the city, while i went to public ... (read in full...)

After a break up, who should initiate a friendship?

Q.   Okay, after a break up who initiates friendship? The person whose heart has been broken or the person who broke the heart? My exboyfriend and I were great friends before we dated and we did agree to being being friends. I miss having him in my li...

A.   11 November 2009: Hey here is a little background info on my ex and i: We met roughly 2 years ago and had a connection immediately. He asked me on a few dates but nothing ever happened for the first year, I was only interested in friendship. We developed a close ... (read in full...)

After a break up, who should initiate a friendship?

Q.   Okay, after a break up who initiates friendship? The person whose heart has been broken or the person who broke the heart? My exboyfriend and I were great friends before we dated and we did agree to being being friends. I miss having him in my li...

A.   11 November 2009: Here is some back ground info: I met my ex 2 years ago and we immediately were friends. He asked me on a few dates, but were mostly just friends for the first year. After a year of knowing eachother, he told me he had very strong feelings for me; ... (read in full...)

How do I reply to his text?

Q.   Hey everyone. So I have been devasted and lost for the past week and a bit because my boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me. It was a shock and I haven't been able to function properly all week. His is reasons for breaking up with me were the ...

A.   31 October 2009: Well we've been so close for such a long time and i know him very well. I KNOW that with him, the truth comes out when he's drunk. I would be skeptical if i didnt know this about him. I ended up saying "do you actually miss me or were you just ... (read in full...)

Help its my first time today!

Q.   okay..today is the day i have sex with my boyfriend and i'm scared because i don't know what to do with him and he wants me to be on top and i don't know anything about sex and he does not want to be on top of me because he is going to be tried and ...

A.   28 July 2009: Okay, you really need to think this through. If you are scared or nervous about this decision to loose your virginity then you are clearly not ready. Your first time should be with some one you're in love with and this person should not make you ... (read in full...)

He seems selfish sometimes! I'm not sure he appreciates me...

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for several months now and we were friends for a couple years before we started our relationship. We have a lot of fun and spend a lot of time together. However, I find that he can be really selfish sometimes and I am ...

A.   28 July 2009: Well, I still haven't said anything to him about it because I don't know how to approach him without sounding like nag, you know? What should I say?... (read in full...)

Boyfriend is depressed - what to do now?

Q.   I have been dating this man for about 5 months. We met over the internet and he had just relocated to my city for a new job. At first he seemed to good to be true..such a great guy, no drama, steady job...just what I needed. Things were going ...

A.   27 July 2009: Oh dear, I have sympathy for you and your partner. Perhaps you made a mistake by moving too fast with him. But you can't undo what has been done. I think you are being patient enough and you seem to provide adequate support and love. For the time ... (read in full...)

Why on earth did my now-married ex add me as a friend on Facebook?

Q.   what can i do ? i did post about this earlier-as a recap i split with my fiance 6 years ago we havent spoke since 2005 the other night i get an email requesting facebook friendship from him so i accept and go on his site to see hes married and ...

A.   27 July 2009:  He must have been curious about you and wanted to see how you were doing. If it hurts you to see his new life after all these years, I would just delete him as a friend because there is really no reason for you to be in contact with him, right? ... (read in full...)

I don't want to sound mean. She doesn't exersice and shes putting on weight

Q.   ok. i dont want this to sound horrible but it probably will. Im very very into fitness and working out. i have a very good body and feel its really important to stay in shape not just for myself but for my partner. my girlfriend however, with...

A.   27 July 2009: Well I can some what relate to you. Although my boyfriend is not overweight by any means, it bothers me that he doesn't participate in physical activity at all really. But lately instead of going on usual dinner dates or movie dates, we have been ... (read in full...)

Sibling sex

Q.   Hi, i read a post about a brother and sister having sex, at first i thought it was wrong but a lot of the replys where people that have had sex with there siblings and enjoyed it, and didn't have any long turm negative effects from it. Now i can't ...

A.   27 July 2009: Hey, I agree with the others that have posted. First of all, if you became pregnant your child would have serious health problems. And, all the previous responses have covered what incest can do to you and your brother's mental health. This is a ... (read in full...)

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