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Help me with subtle flirting

Q.   Does anyone have any good advice on flirting, it needs to be quite suttle tho. Thanks...

A.   9 May 2008: Use body language. Show you're wrists, softly part your lips, smile slightly, and meet his eyes. It works, but it's herder to remember all of this body language stuff than you'd think.... (read in full...)

What sort of women do men really like? Real? Or fake dolls with fake breasts, fake nails, fake hair...

Q.   Ok, I know this topic gets old fast, and that I'll probably hear the same answers that are usually given, but let's have a try and I truly do expect honesty... PLEASE... It's always said men prefer natural beauty, natural looking women. But if th...

A.   9 May 2008: personally, I like real girls. Doing stuff like plastic surgery, etc actually makes them unatractive to me. It's really the personality that counts, though.... (read in full...)

How can I believe him when he says I'm beautiful?

Q.   My husband gets up really early in the morning for work. This is also when all the porn is on. I understand men wake up excited and need a release. My problem is I feel like I'm being compared later when we have sex or I am naked in front of him. He ...

A.   9 January 2008: He may not be talking about your body when he says that, he could be talking about your heart. ... (read in full...)

Every time I make a suggestion, my boyfriend yells at me. If I do not, he is not pleased either. What am I doing wrong?

Q.   I'm trying to make my 3-yr relationship with my b/f work out but at times he seems impossible to please. Some examples: We'll be driving in the car, and he'll tell me that I should look ahead and see if there's traffic coming on my side of the car, ...

A.   9 January 2008: Sounds like the problem's with him. If I were you, I'd call this the end. You're doing nothing wrong. Good luck in whichever path you choose.... (read in full...)

Shpould I call the cops?

Q.   I'm not sure how to go about asking this, or even what I'm asking exactly. This guy (who is 26) has been talking to me online for a few years now, I usually ignore him because he annoys me and is a pervert. After I stopped talking to him on ...

A.   9 January 2008: I think you should call them. Annonomously, or not, they need to be called.... (read in full...)

If he's so attracted to me, why doesn't he want to get physical?

Q.   I've been VERY close with my guy friend for about 5 months(we seen each other EVERY DAY and never tire!). We've talked about dating, or fooling around at least, but when the kiss that I expected NEVER came, I called him on it. (I've tried once ...

A.   8 January 2008: I hope I've got it right here. Either he doesn't want to loos your trust by getting too physical, or he is just a ladies man. I can't offer much help here, but I did want to offer the possability of him being afraid to loos you. I hope you figure it ... (read in full...)

An older guy consoled her and she has feelings for him. What should I do?

Q.   Me and my gf have been together for a years plus now, she is 16 and I am 18. I can honestly say I truly love her and she loves me. I was her 1st major boyfriend. We've been very happy together, we've been discussing about out future and we're...

A.   8 January 2008: The most important thing you can do right now is communicate. Make her feel in controll. Go to her with an appology, and ask her for forgiveness (even if she had something to do with it too). Tell her that it had nothing to do with her, and express ... (read in full...)

How can I make him see how good I would be for him?

Q.   These past couple months I have come to realize that Im falling in love with my best guy friend.We have been physical before but have never had sex.He refuses to kiss me on the lips though as he says its too intimate.Which confuses me because why ...

A.   8 January 2008:  Hi. I've been in several situations like you, except you're in a better place: you're friends first. It looks like he might be a bit confused as to his feelings for you, as well. I can't really offer much advice, but I can suggest one thing that ... (read in full...)

Is there something wrong with my weight?

Q.   I'm a 13 year old young woman with a lot of issues about the way I looke. I look pretty tiny. I am 5'0.5' tall and I weigh like 125 pounds. Do you think there is something wrong with my weight?...

A.   8 January 2008: I know someone who's in 9th grade who's under 5' 8''. I also know two people the same age who are both about 5' 1'. Don't worry about it. (-:... (read in full...)

How do you keep a secret that is burning you inside?

Q.   How do you keep a secret from anyone, one secret which is mine (i kept for 6 years but can't cope anymore, it's killing me inside and making me mad) the other which is my families...

A.   8 January 2008:  What kind of secret is it? Will it help if you tell someone trustworthy (usually an adult) , or just make it worse?... (read in full...)

Happy that she's dating my best mate, again-sad that I'm not! I'm crushed!

Q.   Hi im13 and i posted a question middle of december about my mates ex and wether she was off limits. But ill start from the beggining: Basically the first time i saw this girl-lets call her emily-i thought she was gorgeous but at the time she was...

A.   8 January 2008: Hi. I'm sorry I can't offer much advice, but I did want you to know that I've been in the same situation. Eventually, they broke up, I got to know her better, and she started to like me. I started not liking her as much, though, and and even began ... (read in full...)

She consented to sex but is now crying rape

Q.   My friend was telling me this story about him and it has made me a bit confused. He and his girlfriend had sex for the first time a few days ago. He asked her if she wanted to have sex (they were both sober) and asked her every now and then if ...

A.   8 January 2008: There is no way of denying that he had sex, so the only thing he can do is tell the truth and think posatively. Good luck.... (read in full...)

Help! I'm 14 and my girlfriend is pregnant!

Q.   Hi ,i am 14 years old and i am concerned that my girlfriendis pregnant. she was a virgin as i had sex before. We dident use protection and now she is 3 months pregnant. Web dont know how to tell our parents as they will both go mad with us. She has ...

A.   8 January 2008: All I can say is Good luck! Tell your parents, though. You can't hide it, and it's better to have them find out with you being open, then not. If I were you, and I'm not very old to be offering this kind of advice, but I'd ask one of your parents to ... (read in full...)

I am becoming interested in him as he is nice and respectful, but is he too old for me?

Q.   Hello, I'm 15 years old, and a 19 years old guy likes me. He's really nice and respectful. I'm becoming interested in him, But I'm thinking it's not right of me. Is this guy too old? [Added] Hello, I've posted a question here recently, But another ...

A.   7 January 2008: HI. This is only my oppinion, but if it's really love, age does not matter. My parents are almost ten years appart in age, but that makes no difference how the public sees them. They love eachother, and that's enough. I also don't think that that's ... (read in full...)

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