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My bf seemed fine with us not having sex, but now he touches me in places I don't want him to!

Q.   Hi I'm 15yrs. I've been going out with my boyfriend for about two months. told him that I didn't want sex when he asked me, he seemed very understanding and we spoke no more of it. But since then he has become very touchy feely. He touches place...

A.   22 June 2005: I think you should tell him that you feel very uncomfortable with him touching you in your places. Just sit down and have a talk with him. Who cares if he runs his mouth to his friends about it! The only thing that matters is that you're doing the ... (read in full...)

Why doesn't she enjoy sex any more? Is she shy? Is she straight?

Q.   i'm in a lesbian and am in a relationship...well rather we have married. Before our wedding, my wife used to enjoy sex, in the sense that she'll let me kiss her all over but was still shy of me going down.but now she doesn't like to kiss and hard...

A.   22 June 2005: I think she's shy. She's afraid to touch you while you guys are having sex because she's shy and afraid she's going to make the wrong move.... (read in full...)

Might I lose him to his rude and persistant ex?

Q.   I just started going out with this boy and I really like him he is perfect in every way but he has a pyscho ex girlfriend and she keeps calling him and me sending me nasty text message and she is just really rude. At times I believe her then I think ...

A.   22 June 2005: Confront her. Go up to her and tell her to back off of your man. If she doesn't, ask your boyfriend to. She needs to understand that you are with him and not her.... (read in full...)

Problem with ejaculation... could it have been caused by shoulder surgery?

Q.   I am a 39 year old male,have had an active sex life, fell in love with a married woman,and we have been having an affair for about 2 years. Problem is that all of a sudden after I had shoulder surgery,(rotator cuff),I at first was having problems...

A.   22 June 2005: It probably is because of the shoulder surgery. When they operated, they probably shifted something in your arm to cause your hand to not give as much pleasure as it used to. Another thing is that you could still be in pain on the inside and your ... (read in full...)

Can a gay guy decide to be straight?

Q.   I kissed a gay guy the other night while I was at a big rave. We were quite 'out of it' but hung out for hours and were kissing all night. He has a boyfried, but is in an open relationship and he told me that he has not been with a girl in three ...

A.   22 June 2005: This guy could not be gay. He could be bisexual, you never know. And yes, a gay guy can go straight if he feels the need. Sometimes, men get in sexual intercourse with another male and since they did that, they think they're gay. Most of them are ... (read in full...)

The sex is amazing, except my boyfriend sometimes goes too hard, or too fast...

Q.   I just started dating this guy three months ago, and he's the first boyfriend I've had after ending a six-year relationship a little over a fifteen months ago. When I hooked up with him, I hadn't had sex in over a year--lots of life issues. ...

A.   22 June 2005: Just tell him the truth! Just tell him that he needs to not be so rough and tell him that you like it when you get pleasure too. Just come right out of the hole and tell him how you feel, then you'll feel more comfortable around that person and not ... (read in full...)

She's married and unhappy with him, but she won't leave him!

Q.   I am seeing a married woman. She has been with him for 6 years and they have a 3 year old daughter together. They have been having problems from day one,started seeing a counsellor the second month together. He had nothing when they got together...

A.   15 June 2005: I have this same problem, but with my aunt. She is in love with this guy named Paul (my "uncle," even though they aren't married) and they have been together for many many years. They have 3 children. He used to beat her and stuff, and now she's ... (read in full...)

Why are my boyfriend's mates allowed to bring their girlfriend's, but I'm not invited?

Q.   My boyfriend's birthday is Friday and I am going to eat with him and his parents and we are hanging out together that night. Saturday we are also hanging out, but that night, he is going to hang out with his friends for his birthday. OK, so that's ...

A.   15 June 2005: You know what i would say? I would tell him that it doesn't seem right that they (the girlfriends) get to go and you dont. Personally, I don't think its right either. I think you should sit down and have a talk with him about that night. Maybe tell ... (read in full...)

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