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my boyfriend is insecure, what can I do?

Q.   I Thought Girls were supposed to be the obsessive ones???????? My boyfriend is so insecure, he cant go one day without talkin to me and although i love him sumtimes i do need a lil space. he freaks if i suggest a breal n if we argue n i talk a...

A.   8 May 2007: wow. Thats a big burden. This isn't an easy situation - and there really isnt a right answer. If I were in your shoes, he needs to know what he is doing is upsetting. It puts a huge amount of pressure on you that you really dont need. Remember ... (read in full...)

What can I say to motivate my lazy grand-daughter?

Q.   Tuesday 8 May 10.30 am My 14 year old granddaughter is bright, but lazy and prefers to spend time with friends than study. She consequently is not reaching her potential at school. Recently, through the recommendation of a family friend, ...

A.   8 May 2007: Hey being the similar style of person I'm trying to motivate myself! I know for a fact I could do a lot better at college, but when it comes around to doing work or revision I cant find the umph!! What ive started doing is finding myself something ... (read in full...)

My Mum died and I miss her so badly. Any advice in helping me get through this?

Q.   Hey guys! I know this isnt relevent to this site but i lost my mum in march the 14th this year and im finding it very hard to move on. Ive resorted to booze to ease the pain. I dont want to do this but i cant see any other other way and my life ...

A.   17 September 2006: hey im sorry to hear about your mum, it takes a lot to get through such a loss and i feel for you. I lost my dad when i was twelve, fortunately my mum was there and shes been a rock to me. Having lost a dad when i was that young wasnt easy, pa... (read in full...)

She blames me over the pregnancy

Q.   My fiance and I have been together for 3.5 years and for the 1st time in her life she is pregnant, weve had our ups and downs but we have a good relationship, anyway we talked about having a child awhile back and decided no. She went off the pill ...

A.   17 August 2006: I agree with Dr Psych. She is probably lashing out at the nearest thing because she is trying to cover up a bigger problem. Yes sex is a two way thing and both parties have as much responsibility for each other, however being the main man in her ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 yrs old and smoke , how much harm is this doing to me?

Q.   i have smoked 6 or 7 cigerettes 3 in 1 go kinda 1 after another n then the n 3 or 4 after it seperate ..im only 13 and i wanna know how much harm i have caused to myself please be persific ...

A.   17 August 2006: looks like uve had a good few answers - and they all read the same message!! do stop because remember your body is still growing and this will reduce your intake of vitamins and other nutrients. You can easily get help from skool and/or family just ... (read in full...)

Worried about my exam results

Q.   I recieve my GCSE results later this month however, I'm quite worried incase I've failed. I am in top groups for everything at school and even went for some GCSE's early last year. I just scared incase I let people down and dont do aswell as they ...

A.   17 August 2006: I'm in exactly the same position as you at school about to recieve my gcse's in roughly two weeks i think. From what i understand from your message you are a very bright girl with good potential. Teachers wouldnt enter you for your gcse's if they ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend asked me to marry him, but I'm only fourteen!

Q.   I am only 14 and my boyfriend has asked me to marry him! I realy love him but how many people stay with someone that they started dating when they were 10? What should I say?...

A.   13 August 2006: well i know someone who sed they would get married at 15 and it didnt work out. The likeyhood is what you want at 14 isnt going to be what you want at 30, 40, etc etc. So my advice is just enjoy being young. take care... (read in full...)

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