I feel excluded by boyfriend's decision to visit alone...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost six years--on and off--but consistently now for the past three years. I suspect that he’s a bit emotionally unavailable because of his compartmentalization tendencies and the fact that he’s told me he’s ...
A. 5 November 2017: To the anonymous female reader: this is such an astute answer and makes so much sense. One of my friends who knows both of us basically told me some of the same things Friday when I talked with her. She, too, thinks my boyfriend will be surprised ... (read in full...)
I feel excluded by boyfriend's decision to visit alone...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost six years--on and off--but consistently now for the past three years. I suspect that he’s a bit emotionally unavailable because of his compartmentalization tendencies and the fact that he’s told me he’s ...
A. 4 November 2017: One final update: today he texted me to explain his "rationale." Here it is, with actual names replaced: "After our last trip to their house, which I thought was somewhat uncomfortable, I began to think about what I could do to go see my grandson ... (read in full...)
I feel excluded by boyfriend's decision to visit alone...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost six years--on and off--but consistently now for the past three years. I suspect that he’s a bit emotionally unavailable because of his compartmentalization tendencies and the fact that he’s told me he’s ...
A. 3 November 2017: By the way, an addendum to my update: I really think he's just using the son-in-law as an excuse. For whatever reason, he just wants to go alone. I don't understand it.... (read in full...)
I feel excluded by boyfriend's decision to visit alone...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost six years--on and off--but consistently now for the past three years. I suspect that he’s a bit emotionally unavailable because of his compartmentalization tendencies and the fact that he’s told me he’s ...
A. 3 November 2017: I think part of the problem is that the son-in-law, whose parents split when he was young, was mostly raised by his grandparents and had no siblings; thus he doesn't have a strong sense of family. And no one resents the father: they all get along ... (read in full...)
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