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I fee like I have a very good head on my shoulders, and I feel like I've always been very mature for my age. When I was in High School, I wasn't your average girl.. I wasn't involved in drama, I didn't date around- I knew what was important. I've never had a crush on a guy without thinking about the possibility of us getting married. I met my boyfriend in 4th grade, and we became close our Sophomore year in High School. We became close immediately after talking- he is the first person I was never shy with. We are so incredibly close, and we talk ALL the time. We got to know each other for about a year before we started our relationship. We are each other's best friend by a long shot, and we knew that we could marry each other since before we even held hands. We have been "together" for about 2 years now, and we are just as inseparable as always.

I am currently attending college and I am completely obsessed. (Not with the partying, or the friends, ect.) but with the learning. I have my few close friends, but the whole having a ton of superficial friends and partying has never been and never will be my thing. I will graduate with a degree in Nursing, and then either get my Masters or Doctorate in Nursing to be a Nurse Practitioner. I plan on working 3 days a week with that job (3 12 hour shifts) so that I can put my family first and spend a lot of time with them. I am almost fluent in Spanish, and I will be using that in my career as well. I absolutely cannot wait to get married and have a family, (I will wait for the family/kid part, don't worry) but I am still excited! I love to just relax and be with the people I am closet to.

I don't like when people are fake, and it makes me sad when I see people dating for the wrong reasons. I would like to be able to help people with that.

He provides everything for me, apartment, money and everything I ask him for, I do not work. He thinks I depend on him too much, is this true?

Q.   My bofriend thinks i depend on him too much, i don't think so. he provide everything for me, apartment, money and every thing i ask him for, i do not work, when we just started out he said he wants to spoil me, and he is doing just that. i don't ...

A.   30 April 2009: It's not good to depend on someone that much... and yes, that's what you are doing. He could leave you, or it could even be out of his control- something could happen to him. Where would that leave you? You need to be able to support yourself. It's ... (read in full...)

Why doesn't he ever learn?

Q.   When my boyfriend's plans change, he never ever tells me, and always waits until I ask him. The other week, we were supposed to see each other on the saturday, but he went to stay with his Dad on friday at the last minute, but didn't tell me until I ...

A.   30 April 2009: It honestly just sounds like he doesn't really care about the relationship very much. My boyfriend and I have always told each other everything, and usually know where the other one is. And he would certainly never just forget about plans or cancel ... (read in full...)

I'm going to be married and miss having a crush on a guy!

Q.   I'm sorry this is so long.. but I wanted to get in as much details as possible and PLEASE read it I really want some input. Okay I'm feeling so confused and worried. I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years, and best friends with him...

A.   5 July 2008: Thanks everyone! These were wonderful answers. And, I think I was just being a girl and overanalyzing this a little too much. I make it sound worse than it seems. And trust me, I would never cheat on him. If SOMEHOW I ever decided I wanted a... (read in full...)

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