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Q.   I'm 44 years old and recently divorced after 22 years. I have a bf I've been dating for 3 months. He seems into me yet always waits till the last minute to ask me to do anything and it seems like I'm making more of an effort than he is. I'm ...

A.   18 March 2009: Relax, Consider the timescales involved here. You were married for 22 years and you have been dating now for 3 months. Ask yourself WHY you are so keen to be pursued and whether this need would be forfilled by anyone showing enough will. Take t... (read in full...)

I have never expressed once that I could or would support her in this way

Q.   since I've been with my girlfriend she has had maybe 5 or 6 different jobs, most last less than a month. the longest was at Macy's and that was 3 months working only weekends. she's not in school, she's not disabled, although she doesn't have any ...

A.   16 March 2009: You have already shown plenty of patience bearing in mind that this has been going on for some time. Is this a cycle you believe can be broken, is she in and out of work because of bad luck or bad attitude? Everybody deserves a chance to get them... (read in full...)

Tips about intimacy with my husband? I am sexually frustrated but most of all I am hurt that he doesn't care enough to give me affection!

Q.   Hi all I need some advice on how to improve sex/intimacy with my husband. ( He's 37, I am 30. No kids. )We've been together for 8 years and we love each other to bits. All is well except when it comes to sex and affection. He has always had trou...

A.   4 October 2008: Wow! It is obvious from your post how this situation is really beginning to grind you down! I would quite simply say that sexual compatability is probably THE most important thing in a relationship to me! This isn't a statement from an overegoe... (read in full...)

Does her starting smoking again mean she doesn't care about me anymore??

Q.   I met my girlfriend in England 6 months ago and we both love each other very much! She lives in Turkey and returned 1 month ago trying to get visa to return and study. Whilst she was in England she quit smoking, she said that it was all because of ...

A.   1 September 2007: Thank you for your replies! Generally you feel that it is not that instumental for our relationship! You lot have helped me make a balanced decision about situation! Thanx! I still love her so much and feel a little petty! But trust is so important ... (read in full...)

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