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I am a male and I don't enjoy sex.

Q.   I am an adult male, have had sex a couple of times and have never really enjoyed it. The sex all seem mechanical with no real pleasurable sensation or feeling like you read about or see in movies. I also don't ejaculate during sex but ejaculate when ...

A.   9 November 2007: Maybe you were brought up in a household where sex wasn't an acceptable topic and expressing that side was considered inappropriate. ... (read in full...)

How do I lift my self esteem?

Q.   I am 23 years old and have never had a real relationship before. I have had a boyfriend in the past but it was nothing serious. There was no real passion, love or a deep emotional connection between the two of us. Thinking back, there was nothing ...

A.   9 November 2007: First of all, know you aren't alone. Whether or not we show it, everyone has self-esteem issues, and often they use relationships and attention from the opposite sex to make them feel more confident. Think of all the things you do well. You're obvi... (read in full...)

Should I break up and just end the guilt?

Q.   Hello i have been in my first relation for about a month now. I like my girlfriend but i like her friends too. I think i may have feeling fors one but i like my girlfriend Should i break up with my girl friend and just end this guilt? '.'.'...

A.   9 November 2007: Being attracted to other people is human nature. Don't feel guilty about it unless you find yourself acting out these feelings by flirting with her friends or other girls. There are several reasons why you could be feeling this way. Maybe its simp... (read in full...)

Why can't I get a relationship for more than three months.

Q.   why cant i stay in a relationship for more than 3 months, after that i always try pushing away, finding her flaws, and making fun of her? all in all i become an asshole...

A.   9 November 2007: I have a friend with the EXACT same three month problem. I don't think you have personal issues that need to be worked out necessarily. Maybe you've only had a few serious relationships you felt very strongly about. Relationships really get going ... (read in full...)

Is he only sticking around for sex?

Q.   An old aquaintance and I recently got back in touch, and we have gone out every weekend for the past three weeks. We hit it off, and there was obviously chemistry, and in the heat of the moment, we had sex that first night and have continued to each ...

A.   9 November 2007: The morning after the first night we had sex, I was definitely angry with myself. I knew I had pretty muched ruined much chance of an actual relationship (and probably lost his respect). I avoid alcohol because, for lack of a better phrase, I'm a ... (read in full...)

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