Is it possible to fix things after a "break" if he still has a lot to work on?
Q. This is a long one, but please hang with me. I have been married for almost 10 years. The last five have been horrible. We separated, but lived in the same house for financial reasons. About four years ago, I ended up meeting this really great guy...
A. 25 August 2008: I really feel for you, but I'm going to say cut your losses. He is right in telling you that you should get the apartment because it's what you want, not for him. That, him not taking your calls when he's home and him needing time to think, are ... (read in full...)
Do we give up our baby for adoption or not?
Q. I'm 6 months pregnant and my boyfriend doesnt think we are ready both emotionally and financially to have a baby. He thinks the responsible thing to do would be put it up for adoption. We're both 24, and we both have stable careers and all...but ...
A. 25 August 2008: I agree with cupidguy. I can tell you that men don't form the bond that women do with the baby. It is ultimately your decision based on whether or not you can accept that you don't want to raise a child yet. If you're doubting that you can give ... (read in full...)
He WANTS me to initialise sex and I have a hard time doing so due to my experience of having been rejected in the past...
Q. I was married to a man that I loved very much, but when it came to sex, he would always reject me if I initiated sexual moves towards him. I am now engaged to a wonderful guy, but when it comes to sex, he WANTS me to initialize sex and I have a hard...
A. 20 August 2008: I do know that he's only joking, but just by saying it causes me to just go distant from him and then I won't do anything for fear of the 'what if he does refuse me'. As I said, it will take me 2-3 days JUST to start fooling around with him, and ... (read in full...)
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