New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244981 questions, 1084379 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

*isguided

Canada  (Female   XML/RSS

Like what she writes?
... Add *isguided to your favourite agony aunts

Want to get in touch?
... Send *isguided a private message

*isguided's Ratings
Excellent100%
Average0%
Poor0%

We just had our first child - but now his ex might be pregnant.

Q.   What should I do? It all started when my boyfriend rented a room in a house were his exgirlfriend lived. He said he was going to find another place as soon as he could since he did not know she was living there already (this was 6 months ago). H...

A.   3 October 2008: Let me get this straight. You just had a baby with your boyfriend, who cheated on your with his ex who was also you friend at one point...and now she might be pregnant right? Are you sure it's his and she's not jus claiming it is? If it is his,... (read in full...)

I love her so much, but all we ever do is fight or have sex. We plan on marrying. Do we really have a chance?

Q.   There are a few points about my relationship that would help you understand my position. - i've known this girl since my 6th grade. we had a mutual crush when we were in 8th and then we just drifted apart but we maintained contacts. - when i enter...

A.   2 October 2008: Wow! Sweetie are you ever in a dillema...the whol can' live with her, can't live without her. But from the sounds of things my dear, you are more into this relationship than she is. Ask yourself where you see yourself in 5 years, then ask her the ... (read in full...)

Do I give in to his threesome request or let him go?

Q.   My boyfrend and I have been together for 6 months now. He is recently divorced. He left his wife because of several reasons but one of which was the lack of sex. He says our relationship is not based on sex, and yet he said if ever I start not ...

A.   2 October 2008: I just want to thank you all for responding. You hav all been a lot of help. Tonight we are gonna have a nice long chat about my feelings and the whole concept of "respect"! If he can't handle it, then he's just another memory.... (read in full...)

Can physical attraction develop over the years?

Q.   How do you become sexually attracted to the guy you want to marry? We have been together for 4 years, and things are perfect, yet i am not physically attracted to him, and sex feels wrong. I want to fix this, and feel it is all in my head. What ...

A.   2 October 2008: Being physically attracted to someone is part of loving them. Ask yourself why you are with him to begin with? Why start a relationship with a man you aren't attracted to? Fireworks will never go off with out that initial spark hun. Then ask ... (read in full...)

How can I convince him that my boobs are an ok size?

Q.   My boyfriend always seemed to like my body. But he was very critical yesterday. There are things I can change, but there's one that I can't: my breasts. Full B's. But he says he'd prefer they were bigger. He says I look good anyway, but if they were ...

A.   2 October 2008: First of all, your boobs are fine. Second of all, had that been me I would have made a commet toward his man hood and seen if he could take a dose of his own critism. However, your other half was totally rude and inconsiderate about your feelings. ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend of 5 years broke up with me! Should I call him or just give him time to miss me?

Q.   My boyfriend of 5 years recently broke up with me. I was completly blindsided. I knew that we had been aguring for about a month, but he is a college football player and he was away at training camp. I thought when he came home everything would go ...

A.   2 October 2008: You know the old saying, if you love something set it free, if it comes back it' meant to be? Maybe a little space is not only good for him, but for you too. It miht give you time to gather your thoughts and figure out how to approach this. Give ... (read in full...)

*isguided's friends

These are mutual friends, so *isguided has added them and they have added *isguided!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.359381800000847!