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It may seem insincere to some, but I want to help people. I want to create a better quality of life for people, so that they have the liberty to do as they please as long as doign so has no negative consequence for others. I am very politically minded and passionate about many subjects and strive for equality on every level. That's who I am. I'm not sure if this has any relevance to this site, but I'm sure that it does in some way.

At the moment, I live in a rural part of the UK, and am moving to London in a few months. This is because I feel that it is where I belong- in the centre of things. I am 18 years old and am CURRENTLY in a relationship with a man who's 13 years my senior! We haven't been with each other for that long, but we are very similar and have had a very strong connection from the start. He has not settled down, and has never lived anywhere for longer than a year since university. Therefore, it all feels very temporary, especially seeing I am plannign to move away in a few months. It is what I need to do. But we both beleve we are good for one another, and that we will know each other for a long time. I do not want to lose him... It's going to be difficult!

I am a strong person, and even though I think I may struggle to be happy when we break up, I know that I am a very strong person and I live life with no regrets.

How old should you be to have sex?

Q.   i am looking for a boyfriend how can i find one and how old should a girl have to be before she have sex...

A.   12 April 2006: It will all come in time. You hate to hear it, I know. There's no rush.. Evereyone hates being in a rush. Things are almost always done best when not rushed. ... (read in full...)

Rumor has it..I am a slut! But it's not true so how do I show this guy I like, I am not really this way?

Q.   how can you show a guy you're not a slut?? when he doesn't want to get to know you, only have sex because rumour has it that you're easy even if you aren't?...

A.   12 April 2006: Well, it sounds obvious but here it goes.. you need to show him your mind! You need to show him all of the things that you are, what your interests are and what you're passionate about. Strike up conversation abotu soemthing that is important to ... (read in full...)

My friend's jealous of our love and is trying to split us up!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend, I am 13, he is 14, are planning on been together forever and we are in love. We are going to get married in a hot air ballooon over the Niagara Falls for my 18th birthday and we are going to die together in Peru. lol But we...

A.   11 April 2006: Take your time. Maybe your friend just wants to spend more time with you. You need to make her feel valued. If she's like she is a valuable part of your lofe, she may gain some self-wprth, that maybe she is lacking. It soudns like she would like to ... (read in full...)

What do you think of being "friends with benefits"?

Q.   In your own opinion, what is your view on being "friends with benefits", meaning being friends, but still have a sexual relationships, and does it ever work? ...

A.   11 April 2006: I really believe that it depends on the type of person that you are. I expect, however, that in 99% of cases where people try this, it ends in heart-break OR an actual relationship happening. Sometimes it can be a way to avoid relationships, or as a ... (read in full...)

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