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My family won't approve of my bf, who is of a different race than me. Should I continue hiding it from them?

Q.   So iv been dating this guy for a while now , we are truly happy with each other but we not the same race !! To him and I race is definitely NOT a issue - His coloured and I'm white! My dad doesnt know that we seeing each other, the rest of my f...

A.   29 May 2011: I'm not sure if this helps but yeah, my aunt married this Frenchman, our great-grandmother disapproved and they didn't marry for a long time because in our culture, it is bad luck to marry without your elders' blessings and if you do, everyone in ... (read in full...)

I''m falling for my boyfriends friend

Q.   I'm falling for my boyfriends friend, what do I do? He gives me more attention then my boyfriend does!...

A.   29 May 2011: Asked my brother about this: Sometimes, boys tend not to show too much care to their gfs because they are like afraid they might be showing too much care and invading their gfs' privacy. So, it could be that your bf is trying not to suffocate you ... (read in full...)

He rejected me on facebook! Is it because he didn't recognize me?

Q.   Ok well... I'm prepared and prewarning that some of you may find this problem totally lame and childish but I'm gonna go ahead and ask anyway lol. Basically I met my crush about a year ago at work but where I work means I hardly ever see him. I'm ...

A.   29 May 2011: Hi, I think you should ask him at work. You must try to overcome your shyness. A good friend , Jia, used to be like this, but I eventually talked her out of it. You could say,"Oh, hi, nice to meet you, let's be friends on FBK" and that kind of ... (read in full...)

I feel as though only one of my friends cares about me!

Q.   I recently realized that I think I only have one friend that cares about me. Nobody else seems to be bothered about me. I had about 4 people I could class as friends but I think, truly think only one of those is actually bothered about me. I w...

A.   29 May 2011: I think you should meet people, physically. My mom used to say:??????, or chinese for if you dont go out, you'll never meet true friends. When you text, or chat across a social networking site, you cant hear the tone or see the expression the person ... (read in full...)

He's asked me to a dance. is it ok to date a guy I don't have feelings for?

Q.   This is a question I had thought over even before I came to this site, I just wondered if it's okay to date a guy without having feelings for him. Previously, my affiliated school's student president asked me out. Wow, back then, I was only 13 and ...

A.   14 April 2011: Ahh, now that i think about it, no. That would definely be EWw. And I guess it would be pretty unkind...... (read in full...)

The guy who likes my best friend has been spreading rumours about me, how do I stop them from getting together? I don't want to lose my friend!

Q.   Emm, here goes: My best friend, Ann has this admirer who confessed to her a year ago(and still likes her). The thing is I have always had a good impression of him until recently. I found out that he started spreading rumors about me being unreliable ...

A.   14 April 2011: I know, I should do that. But I really can't do it- its too hard. As I ve said, I gave Sooo much to this friendship,I can't lose it. I really can't. I just want to protect Ann from the guy and its not that she's making a decision between me and the ... (read in full...)

I have a crush on my teacher and I think he likes me also, but he's married to a woman who is way older than him!!

Q.   Ok, so at the beginning of the school year I didn't like him that much I just thought he was kinda cute so I thought I would get over it but then he started flirting with me! He started staring at me, smiling at me, and he just treated me ...

A.   12 April 2011: Omg, you like your teacher?!!! I can't even imagine!!! Get over it, quickly, it's not appropriate. Fairytales don't exist in today's world, my dear girl, it's time to wake up. Listen. Cock-a-doodle-doo, its morning, wakey! ... (read in full...)

They tell me I should like boys, but I don't How do I tell them I don't want to go to the dance without hurting their feelings?

Q.   Ermm, hi, kay, here's the problem. My best friend, el, told me that at this age we 're supposed to like boys. But, I still sort of hate them. I mean, is it even normal to like boys. I've not even had my first crush or anything like that. Then, our ...

A.   11 April 2011: Thank you very much for all your advice!!! I do what I could and chose this Teddy bear- like person to go with me to the dance. El has stop pestering me. I don't think Im ever going to like any boys but oh well, it'll be good to start garnering ... (read in full...)

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