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I think I'm ready for sex but part of me is thinking I'm too young... am I?

Q.   I'm 12 years old and have been thinking about sex for a couple of weeks and i really want to try it and no i'm not a slut/slag or whatever you want to call it so my boyfriend who is 3 years older(been with him for a year and totally in love ...

A.   17 August 2008: Whatever happened to just trying masturbation. It's like the whole part of exploring your own body before letting someone else go there is totally gone. I must have had low self-esteem because I didn't think about sex because I wouldn't dare let ... (read in full...)

I've met this amazing guy but he is not a great looker-what do I do?

Q.   Okay so my question is this... I am 19, and two weeks ago I have met this guy... He is so amazing. In his personality... I cannot even describe all of his wonderful characteristics...He truly is amazing. Truly. He is talented in music, has nice ...

A.   17 August 2008: Imperfections are what some people really find attractive in their significant other. If he believes you are a '9 out of 10' then he must be walking tall when he goes out with you and believes there is something special about himself. I would have ... (read in full...)

What do women think about a guy thats 23 and still a virgin?

Q.   What do women think about a guy thats 23 and still a virgin. thats my situation. im not ugly or fat....

A.   17 August 2008: It's nothing to be ashamed about. Just keep up the willpower and don't let someone try and manipulate you into having sex just so they feel more powerful. There are many conniving people out there. Hopefully you will find someone special that has ... (read in full...)

My left breast is larger than the right. I get teased and it puts me down. What can I do?

Q.   Im 24 years old and my left breast is considerably larger than my right one - about 2 cup sizes larger. I have read on the internet, and from other girls with the same problem, that this is totally normal but it does not look normal and has dented ...

A.   17 August 2008: Try out different bra styles and brands. You may just want to by one with removable padding and take it out of one cup. If it is related to a medical condition you may be able to get your insurance to pay for it. Like here, if a woman's breasts are ... (read in full...)

I'm 13 years old, going to have sex for the first time. What position is best?

Q.   I am 13 and me and My And My Boyfriend have been together for nearly 3 months now and i no he wants too have sex and so do i but i am a virgin so he will be my first. i am really scared.! What position is best for the first time? Everyone says ...

A.   17 August 2008: Don't be talked into anything. First time is not the time to be riding him like a rodeo bull. If you have never had sex and don't know how to move then wait until you are with someone that doesn't tell you how to do it. It will more than likely hurt ... (read in full...)

We've been married for 18 months and she's still a virgin! What can I do?

Q.   Hi, I have been married since March '07 (nearly 18 months ago), I love my wife to pieces but am extremely stuck on this. She was a virgin when we started going out, but the problem is she is still a virgin now. We've been together since '03, and...

A.   17 August 2008: Have her try her fingers or a vibrator instead of something so intimidating that she has to insert. Let her do this on her own so she can relax and explore. Don't know about her upbringing, but I can't imagine someone never pleasuring themselves. ... (read in full...)

Should I have sex even though I'm just 13?

Q.   ok im 13 and i want to have sex. i have a boyfriend, and we have been dating for about 4 months and i think i am ready he is 14 and is a freshman in high school i am still in middle school (8th grade). but my main question is, should i even though i...

A.   17 August 2008: You answered your own question by asking it. If you have to ask others opinion on what you should do, especially when it doesn't affect anyone other than you, then you should not be thinking about it at all. You are both too young to really enjoy ... (read in full...)

Why won't he tell anyone about me even though we are having sex?

Q.   hey, well this is slightly embarressing i'm 16 years old, and am sleeping with a guy who's 21. he treats me so well and well yeah, you get the jist. we started getting together when i was 15, and he didnt want me to tell anyone because of the a...

A.   17 August 2008: I'm assuming if no one knows about you, then you don't go out in public together. What is it that you two really do other than have sex and maybe talk on the phone? He could have another girlfriend that he tells the exact same thing to and is ... (read in full...)

Does semen leak out straight after intercourse-or worse still the next day!?

Q.   I'm ready to start having full sex with my boyfriend.We're both very sensible and have been talking about contraception before we start. It's a toss up between the pill or a condom. I fancy the pill because condoms might reduce sensation but does ...

A.   17 August 2008: http://www.cosmopolitan.com/you/healthy/sex/s/leaking-after-sex This link should help a little. Says do not use tampons-could cause toxic shock syndrome-and to go to the bathroom afterwards. It also seems like it would keep the sperm in you inst... (read in full...)

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