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He's making me choose, him or my dream, what do I do?

Q.   Hey there guys/gals. I am in need of help :/ Let me explain: I am 18 and have a boyfriend of a little over a year and known him for about 6 years. We both have dreams and aspirations as many others although he's not very fond of mine. My dream is...

A.   8 November 2012: If he doesn't support you now, he will not support you in the future either.. Follow YOUR dreams, the rest will fall into place. Do not give up your dreams for anyone else!... (read in full...)

Boyfriend's mom criticizes my natural/healthy lifestyle. Should I stand my ground? If so, how do I do it respectfully and graciously?

Q.   Hello, Please excuse me in advance for the length of this message. I am in a 4 year relationship. I am 24 and my boyfriend is 29. We currently live separately, each with our parents. We plan to move in together as soon as I finish university t...

A.   8 November 2012: If your'e stressed about the mom now just think what it will be like if you ever get married!! It doesn't get any better, believe me!... (read in full...)

I'm cheating on my girlfriend with a girl I'm infatuated with. I want them both!

Q.   I have been with my gf for 3 years. We started dating shortly after I ended my only other relationship, which had lasted 9 years, partly so that I could experience being single for the first time in my life. I wasn't looking for a relationship at ...

A.   9 October 2012: You really need to make a decision because you are hurting them both by doing what you're doing right now.... (read in full...)

Are cold sores herpes?

Q.   Okay, this may be a bit stupid but please bare with me. I'm 20 years old and I've just found out I have herpes simplex type 1. I haven't been tested, I've been told that cold sores are herpes? I've had cold sores since I was a baby and I didn'...

A.   17 July 2012: Over 80% of the population has cold sores (herpes 1). It cannot be transmitted unless you are having an active breakout. Once you have it, you have it forever. An outbreak comes about when your immune system is under stress. You may not have an ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is jealous when I dance salsa....

Q.   So...7 months ago I started a long distance relationship with a man I met online. We talked on the phone for a month before meeting in person. We have a lot in common and he's very attractive. The problem is his jealousy. When we first started ...

A.   23 June 2012: He sounds like a very controlling person. Run away as fast as you can! Someone that wants you to change after they've already accepted you for who you are in the beginning has serious control issues and is terrible dating material. Sounds like he ... (read in full...)

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