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It's so hard seeing my ex-boyfriend suffer because of our breakup, please help!

Q.   My boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago after a 3 year relationship. I saw him as the love of my life, and I know in my heart that he has never loved anyone as much as he did me. We were gonna get married, there was even a point where I took him ...

A.   29 July 2010: And by the way, kudos to you. You should be very proud of yourself for leaving a bad situation. It usually takes women years to learn - if they ever do.... (read in full...)

It's so hard seeing my ex-boyfriend suffer because of our breakup, please help!

Q.   My boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago after a 3 year relationship. I saw him as the love of my life, and I know in my heart that he has never loved anyone as much as he did me. We were gonna get married, there was even a point where I took him ...

A.   29 July 2010: I'm so sorry that you're in this situation. I know that it is difficult and painful on so many levels. I do think that there are a couple of things that you need to remember though. One, despite how hard it is to see him in pain - remember that ... (read in full...)

I want to be with her but she's in an LDR with another man, how do I handle this?

Q.   So I have been close friends with this girl and she knows I am interested in her. I had popped the question a couple of times and she without being direct had dropped hints that she was not ready yet and asked me to wait. Which was fine with me. She ...

A.   12 July 2010: I know that you want very badly to be with your close friend. It seems as if you really love her since you are willing to accept difficult situtations in her life. I'm sure this isn't what you want to hear, but this is the time when that 'ole cli... (read in full...)

My mom told me my husband touched her inappropriately. What do I do?

Q.   Okay here is the story. This past two weeks ago my husband and I stayed at my mom's house. My husband and I stayed at my mom's house in one of the bedrooms and my mom stayed on the couch in the living room. We all went out Saturday night and got ...

A.   8 July 2010: I'm so sorry that you have to go through this. I feel for you and know that it's tough. Believe your mother. She has no reason to lie to you and he does. From what you said, you know in your heart of hearts that you can trust her. You are only... (read in full...)

Why do women always lie about there sexual past???

Q.   Hello everyone, Today im here too really find out why women always under sell their sexual past. I found out two of my good friends and including me, That are wives have liad too us about there sexual past. Ive been married for 13 years and come too ...

A.   8 July 2010: When I was younger, I would foolishly tell the truth about how many men I had been with (which was never a high number anyway). No matter what the number was, I always regretted answering. Most of the time when men ask, they cannot handle the ... (read in full...)

My husband wants to go down on a man.

Q.   My husband wants to go down on a man. He has never done this before, but admits he has fantasized about it and just wants to try it to see what the hype is about. He doesn't want to try anal with a man or anything like that. Also, he wants to watch ...

A.   30 June 2010: There are two main things that stand out to me and the first is that he is being honest. It should be a relief to have him come talk to you about this rather then have him run off and do it behind your back. That also makes me think you can ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my best friend's woman

Q.   So I feel like the most terrible human being because of this, i've only told one person of this but I need the advice of someone who has delt with it....I'm completely and totally in love with my best friends wife, she's absolutely the perfect ...

A.   28 June 2010: It doesn't sound to me as if he's asking for permission to bang his best friend's wife while he's overseas. It sounds to me like he feels trapped by his love for her. He just wants to talk to someone about it... at least that is the impression I ... (read in full...)

Do I take in only one of my siblings, or leave them both together?

Q.   My sister (12) and brother(10) are both in a care home as my mum lost custody of them as she is a heroin addict. I don't have enough money/big enough house to take custody of both of them but my solicitor says that I could certainly take one of ...

A.   28 June 2010: I'm so sorry that you are in this position. I know that you want to help your siblings, but I do agree with CaringGuy. On one hand it does seem like if you could help one of them, why wouldn't you? But how would you choose? Plus, as you said, ... (read in full...)

What do girls really look for in a man. (honest views only)

Q.   Can I ask a question to the girls in this site and be completly honest. "What do you really lok for in a guy" I always see answers like good listener caring faithfull not cocky class good career prospects But never does "good looks" ev...

A.   28 June 2010: I get where you are coming from. I have heard over and over from my friends that they want a guy who is sweet, sincere, caring, attentive and so on, yet they never seem to want it when they find it. When you said that girls cannot tell that you... (read in full...)

I have been putting up with my wife's nonsense for far too long!

Q.   I met this beautiful girl i thought i loved, adored and cherish, would do absolutely anything for her... worst decision of my life. even during our 1st years we had fights and arguments. But always thought it resulted due to her past experiences in ...

A.   28 June 2010: Stop sucking up to her! You deserve better! I used to be in a similar situation as she is in and I promise you that you are only making the situation worse. She needs to have a rude awakening and apparently so do you. This may come across as a... (read in full...)

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