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I went too far in my sexual exploration and now my girlfriend says she's lost trust in me!

Q.   Ok so tonight I was in a horny mood and it was overwhelming me. My g/f, who I dearly love and plan to marry, wasn't really in the mood. We were sitting there and I started kissing and licking at her stomach and then began to move up to her ...

A.   7 December 2005: I am a woman and yes some nights I am not in the mood and a kiss and a cuddle might get me to change my mind. But if I am not in the mood I smack his hand and tell him to go take a cold shower. Point is that she could have stopped you whenever she ... (read in full...)

My 16 year old bf is sleeping with my grandmother! What do I do?

Q.   I am 16 and my boyfriend is 16 too. Recently I found out that he has been sleeping with my grandmother and has been having an affair with her for 3 months - and I didn't know until now! I feel sick, disgusted, jaded.... what do I do? Katrina...

A.   2 December 2005: Get rid of the guy and FAST ... (read in full...)

His ex is playing a part in our lives...should I be concerned?

Q.   Iv'e been with my current boyfriend for two months now( nothing really) and things are really good. hes a bit older than me, (im 25 he's 28-9) He first moved out from home when he was 20. He seems to have lived with every one of his serious ...

A.   30 November 2005: Ex's have a horrible habit of rearing their ugly heads. If he stops saying things like she is hassling him and he talks about the good times then you can start worrying.... (read in full...)

She prefers sex after alcohol...

Q.   My girlfriend prefers to have sex after she has drunk alcohol. she is then quite adventurous. we occasionally have it in the morning when she is sober. she tells me i'm the first person that she has had sober sex with in a long time. I am concerned ...

A.   30 November 2005: Time is the key she will take time to learn that sex can be a connection of souls as a pose to just a way of boosting her self esteem. (because you must be hot if a guy wants to sleep with you) So try the romantic candle light thing or even run her ... (read in full...)

My bf's mate is so hot and I'm tempted to cheat.

Q.   Ok. my boyfriend doesn't pressure me to have sex, we're rather content in our relationship, I'm VERY infatuated with him, but his friend and I are more in sync, I really have the hots for this friend, he understands me, he's hot and he's really ...

A.   29 November 2005: Don't go there!!! You will regret it I know been there done that. And I have had it done to me. Follow thissimple rule and you can't go wrong. Your friends bf is off bounds and so are your bfs friends.Trust me love at the expense of someone elses ... (read in full...)

My cousin's in love with me...and she's only 12!

Q.   I think my 12 year old cousin's in love with me... how do i tell if she really is and what do i do about it?...

A.   29 November 2005: Relax...I had a ten year old boy have a crush on me when I was 19 It happens. she will get over it. If not have a chat with her and tell her that the age gap is big now but maybe when you are older. If she still feels the same when she is 18 you'll ... (read in full...)

How do I get back with him again?

Q.   Im confused. My boyfriend of one year and i recently split. There was no real reason why we broke up - it was more of a spare of the moment decision out of anger over a stupid fight. Trouble is, now i deeply regret breaking up with him. We still see ...

A.   29 November 2005: Do you really beleive he is the one? If so let a solid friendship develop it is the best foundation for a long term relationship. If he wants you he'll come and get you. It wouldn't hurt to seem adored by other guys so if you got it flaunt it for ... (read in full...)

Does she really care enough to want me back?

Q.   I had a relationship with this girl,she told me one day,its over and i said "cool" even though i was hurt inside.She dated another guy but she has left her recenlty.she is now sending sms's and emails telling me she still cares.i realy still love ...

A.   29 November 2005: Don't go back to her she is jusst falling back onto what she knows. She might not even be trying consiously but if she dumped you once she will do it again. Trust your gut though and what will be will be.... (read in full...)

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