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... Send Marriedtwokids a private message | | | Marriedtwokids's profile:I have been in a strong long term relationship for 20 years and married for 15 of them (with some inevitable ups and downs). I have two great kids.
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What can I do to keep everyone happy?
Q. I split from my ex partner 7 years ago after she had an affair.We have three children 12,11 and 9.i have now been married to a wonderful caring woman for the last 2 years(5years in total) she has an 11 year old daughter with no contact with her ...
A. 9 July 2008: First things first - get yourself a good lawyer, and I mean a really good lawyer, because the worst case scenario is that this is the start of a campaign to squeeze you out of your children's life using these kind of accusations.
Sorry to sound li... (read in full...)
How can I convince him that we will still be our children's parents, after we split?
Q. I am in the process of getting a divorce and my husband just wont let go. We have two kids, 6 and 3. When he was a baby his mom didn't make all the right decisions, so now he thinks that it will be the end of the world for our kids too, and is tryi...
A. 7 May 2008: Look, at this point in time he is feeling his life is over. Don't get me wrong, I'm passing no judgements here. I am just trying to give you a guy perspective and I think that would apply, to a greater or lesser extent, for most men. Men, or rather ... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant if my partner had a vasectomy done?
Q. Can I get pregnant even when my partner had a vasectomy 8 years ago? He did not go back for any tests??...
A. 30 April 2008: Unlikely. If you are looking to get pregnant, then it may be possible to reverse it and you should talk to your doctor about it.
However....and I am sorry that this is going to sound very cynical, but I really hope you are not looking for a line t... (read in full...)
I know my husband's son comes first but I refuse to stay in the shadows and live my life by the ex's rules???
Q. I hope you guys can help me.. my husband (we have been married for 3 years) has a 9 year old son from a previous relationship. His ex has always made things difficult and I think between them they use the boy as a pawn. When he goes to watch hi...
A. 20 April 2008: I can well understand this is frustrating. You definitely have a reason to be unhappy, but.....
The fact is that your husbands' ex has him by the balls (if you will forgive my bluntness) as she can control access to his son. The current UK legal... (read in full...)
She's due out of jail soon and is claiming to have "found the Lord". She wants to come home... should I take her back?
Q. Briefly as I can: situation I am 58, ex is 42. She is in jail {6 months} and will be getting out soon. I was married 20 years 1 [15 year old daughter] left. This woman has stole credit cards, bank checks over the 20 years amounting to $100,000 ...
A. 29 February 2008: The issue is not whether you are stupid to love her, the question is what you should do when she comes out.
She may have genuinely found religion. She may be genuinely remorseful. On the other hand I am afraid she may be spinning you a line bec... (read in full...)
How can we rekindle the romance under the pressure of financial stress??
Q. What should I do? First, I can't believe I'm writing about my situation. I've always felt I could deal with my marriage without outside help, although I've been to marriage/sex therapy 12 years ago. I've been married for 18 years now. Boy how time...
A. 13 February 2008: There appears to be two inter-related problems: money and intimacy. Firstly money. You say you are an entrepreneur. I have no idea what that means in practical terms in this case. Maybe you work very hard 16 hours a day 7 days a week. Maybe you... (read in full...)
Sometimes I find myself seeking a better match...what should I do??
Q. Is the selfish option, the right option? I have a loving husband who is ideal in many ways. Aquantances, work colleagues, friends and family all sing his praises as someone totally fabulous - and they say I am very lucky. To others though, w...
A. 8 February 2008: I am the “anonymous” poster returning to this again. Why am I returning to this problem? I guess because I was moved by your response.
I am sad that you have clearly tried to address the issues in your marriage along the lines I suggeste... (read in full...)
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