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Alone after abortion and feel so low.

Q.   I have recently split up from my boyfriend of a year because he wanted to go back to his home country. I offered to go with him but he said he wasn't ready for that kind of commitment because we would have to get married. This was back in feb that i ...

A.   26 May 2006: Number 1 you should not feel ashamed of yourself and you should accept that we are all prone to mistakes and that we are all allowed forgiveness...from outselves. The pain wont leave you straight away and you have to remember your reasons for havi... (read in full...)

How can I persuade him to give us another chance?

Q.   Myself and my boyfriend of almost 3 years recently broke up. We're best friends, are very attracted to each other and I love him like crazy. He says he doesn't know how he feels anymore but that it doesn't matter as we'll never work out. I suspect ...

A.   23 October 2005: Hi hun, im sorry to say that i have been in the same situation as you and i unfortunately done all the chasing, everything would be great for a week, then he would be too busy etc etc etc and this went on and off for 4 months. He would never ex... (read in full...)

We broke up and I want to move on... but how do I forget my feelings?

Q.   Dear Cupid, My fiance broke up with me a month ago and I'm still in shock over it. We were deeply in love. She would say all the time how she couldn't wait for us to be married and living together. I wanted to be with her in all eternity but now...

A.   11 September 2005: I am so sorry to hear of your pain, unfortunately, all too many of us know what you are going through, myself inclusive. The best thing is to remember and treasure your most fond memories and think to yourself, "these are only the beginning". ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend has written me out of her life...and she says there's no chance of changing her mind.

Q.   Dear Cupid I have been going out with a great girl for just over three years, but she has decided that she doesnt want to be part of this relationship any more, and she has ended it during a disagreemen we had about something very minor. From ...

A.   10 September 2005: The confusion, upset and heartbreak are probably the only things you can think of right now and all I can say, is let yourself feel these things. I have very recently been through the same thing, blamed everything on myself, didn't know what I did ... (read in full...)

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