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I want my marriage back, but my feelings for the other woman are keeping me from rekindling my relationship with my wife.

Q.   I really need some help on this one. In prior posts I spoke of how after a 6 year marriage and two kids, my marriage was failing due to a lack of intimacy, attraction and just all out togetherness. We never fought or argued, we just drifted apart. ...

A.   1 April 2011:  www.marriagebootcamp.com I wish I had went when I had the chance as I was in your situation. Love can be rebuilt lots of hard work and being self aware and compassionate.... (read in full...)

She's everything that I wish my wife was!

Q.   My wife 10 yrs together/8yrs married and me have been separated for over 2 months now. The reason being was because of infidelity on my part. I take full responsibilities for my actions and while we were talking separation before anything had ...

A.   29 December 2010: I'm not seeing my lover at this moment, because its not right to her as I go through this. I saw my wife for 10 minutes at Christmas and overall we have been very civil minus a few flare ups. I am not holding her back; I'm trying to move forward ... (read in full...)

If he really loved her he wouldn't cheat on her with me right?

Q.   I am extremely torn and confused over a guy that I was with 8 years ago for 1.5 years. Because of certain circumstances we had broken it off and recently about 4 months ago he came back into my life. He remembers everything we have done, all the ...

A.   29 December 2010: Affairs are just stepping stones to other problems in a relationship. I'm realizing that myself. He needs time, its hard. Usually all you hear is about women who hurt after divorce but we men hurt too, believe me ... (read in full...)

She's everything that I wish my wife was!

Q.   My wife 10 yrs together/8yrs married and me have been separated for over 2 months now. The reason being was because of infidelity on my part. I take full responsibilities for my actions and while we were talking separation before anything had ...

A.   27 December 2010: I'm currently taking time for myself, trying to heal myself before I can move on with my life. I've made some mistakes recently and I own up to them with the emotional pain of losing and hurting someone, seeing dreams fade and being alone. I wan... (read in full...)

She's everything that I wish my wife was!

Q.   My wife 10 yrs together/8yrs married and me have been separated for over 2 months now. The reason being was because of infidelity on my part. I take full responsibilities for my actions and while we were talking separation before anything had ...

A.   26 December 2010: Thanks for your well wishes, I've been extremly torn especially here during the holidays. I'm going through the motions of guilt, blame, fear, and resentment.Its so hard to love someone and let them go at the same time. I keep asking myself what are ... (read in full...)

My testicles were hurting after I made out with my girlfriend?

Q.   hi im a 15 year old boy turning 16 this year. today i was making out with my girlfriend.we made out for a good 10-15 minutes.then we stopped and just watched a movie.when we stopped i realized my testicles were hurting. the area around my pelvis w...

A.   26 December 2010: You're fine, its called "blue balls." You shouldn't get yourself worked up with a female if you don't plan on relieving yourself. Next time it happens go take a cold shower, it helps. I think every guy has been there before. Personally I've been ... (read in full...)

Regaining Wife's Respect

Q.   Hello everyone I am newly married to my wife well about a year.I recently made a mistake and left my job to invest into a business.It didn't work out so here I am unemployed looking for a job.My wife already was complaining about me i.e. I don't ...

A.   26 December 2010: You're not a loser, you tried something and it was unsucessful. I applaud you on that, it takes guts to leave the comfort of a job to start your own business. Your wife should understand that you are a "go getter" and people like you that want to ... (read in full...)

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