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What is the best way to break up with her without causing too much pain?

Q.   I have been going out with this girl for a little over a year. She's great, I love her, would hate to hurt her. The relationship has been great, we very rarely even argue and have never raised our voices when arguing. In most of our first year it ...

A.   5 October 2006: It is tough. Best way you transfer to another school or study abroad for one semester, which will turn out a perfect excuse. However, if this does not work out, just wait until the end of concert and take her to a quite, private place, telling her ... (read in full...)

I still have feelings for the guy who dumped me

Q.   What do you do when you at home alone while your ex who your very much in love with still is on a date. Your ex who broke you heart by telling you he wants date others. Your ex who going to date hie bestfriend who he says he's fancied for time. Your ...

A.   24 July 2006: Well, find your date and let him be! You can not change him, dont believe "I still love you" stuff, that is just nonsense. Dont ever-never let yourself alone at home, spending more time outside, make yourself exhausted and go home just for sleep, ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend seems to have lost interest in having sex with me. What can I do?

Q.   I have been seeing this guy for 2 years now and for the past few months he has shown no interest in having sex. when i confront him about it he states that he thinks its due to stress at work. we havent had sex for 2 months and i pracically beg him ...

A.   1 May 2006: Talk to him, it will change if he really loves you, but if not, leave him!... (read in full...)

He don't want to be in a committed relationship. Should I just leave him then?

Q.   I've dated this guy for about 6 months, we haven't had sex as yet and he tells me that he loves me,we spend almost everyday together. The thing is i love him alot and i could see myself being with him forever. He however doesn't want to get into a ...

A.   1 May 2006: No, 6 months is a long time if you guys almost spend every day together. Talk to him gently and do not push too much, if he loves you truely, he should consider your feelings and take seriously. If he just has the problem to commit, if this cause ... (read in full...)

I think something's trying to keep me and my ex together, is this true?

Q.   This is a kind of long story but please bare with me…two years ago when I was about 15 I went out with this really wonderful guy. I totally feel in love with him but things didn’t work out and we broke up. We stayed friend for about a year after the ...

A.   1 May 2006: Give more time and see what happens, it might lead a serious relationship, maybe he will leave you again, or you will find out that he is not the one you can accept as a LTR partner. Lots of guys like to play around and go around, they play mind ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend prefers to party than see me, What can I do?

Q.   Why he did not pick up my phone when he was in a bar? I have been dating this guy for 7 month already, after Feb., we had a committed relationship. I turned down all of other guys and wanted to be with him with all my heart. He is a big party...

A.   24 April 2006: I gave him chance to explain why, he just rumbled about how busy he was in the afternoon when he was in the Golf class, but aviod the main point why he did not pick up my phone when he was in a bar, he said his phone was dead then. Gosh, he can ... (read in full...)

I cheated on my gf and I'm wracked with guilt. How do I tell her?

Q.   very sorry, but it's a long one. I am 23 and very happily living with my girlfriend of 2 and a half years. we weren't together over easter, i was at my parents and she was at hers, on the sunday i went out with a couple of mates, got drunk (altho...

A.   20 April 2006: I think you should tell her in a proper way/time/place, showing her your sincere regrets, telling her how important she is in your life, and let her make a decision. Definitely it will hurt her badly, but if she really loves you, she will accept it ... (read in full...)

She still calls me everyday but do I play hard to get?

Q.   I have been in a relationship for about 18 months. Two weeks ago we broke up. I truely love this girl. She says its over, yet calls me every day or so. Should I answer the phone and talk or should I ignore her calls? I think if she was truely done ...

A.   9 April 2006: If you still want to have a relationship with her, answer her phone or play a little bit mind game, but not that much, you will drive her away again. If she keeps calling u, that is a sign she is still thinking of you, it happens a lot for a ne... (read in full...)

He cheated on me in the early days because he thought we wouldn't last!

Q.   Just recently I found out that my boyfriend of 5 months cheated on me when we first started going out. We have gone out twice before for very short amounts of time. I think he cheated because he thought it wasn't going to last, he thought the ...

A.   9 April 2006: Wow, I had the similar situation. We stayed together but it really demand too much emotions involoved and we were not happy for about 2 monthes since the scar was there- If you guys really love each other, suggesting giving another shoot, but I th... (read in full...)

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