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My wife with another man, reality is quite different from fantasy.

Q.   Hello I am looking for some help. I had the fantasy of watching my wife having sex with someone else. I read about it, found that is not so unusual, so I talked to my wife about it. On first hand, she was extranged, since I am a very jelous man, but...

A.   26 April 2012: What you're living in the moment is a dangerous game, be careful about what can happens from now on. You and your wife are making a hot erotic game but you may have consequences, strong and painful. Adultery, even when both partners agree each other ... (read in full...)

My wife got in touch with her first sex partner and sent him a pic of her's in a bikini

Q.   My wife and I have been together for 6 years, married for 4 years. My wife has been with between 60 and 70 men between the age of 18 and 30. She had one 3 year relationship during that time. About 90% of her past sexual experiences were just ...

A.   11 April 2012: If i were i'd contact someone of my ex's and do the same or something like. Call a escort girl, a call girl and pretend to be your old ex girlfriend and add on facebook and do the same, or try to find your really better ex girlfriend and talk to ... (read in full...)

Never physically attracted to my husband ... don't want sex!

Q.   I've been married for a little over 6 months, dated my husband for about a year and half. We lived together for a year before marrying. We married during a serious family crisis (one of my parents became sick and died). Up until the crisis, I had ...

A.   11 April 2012: I feel sorry for him, you should be honest with him but he can divorce you. Is not possible a guy can stay in a marriage like that, maybe he gets tired of all this and will throw you away too. Stop and make a review yourself. Is it fair what you're ... (read in full...)

Technically speaking was it not cheating? since we had had a break up. Am I right in my assumption?

Q.   My girlfriend dumped me and after three months she came back . We were together for 2 years before I picked up fight with her over small issue which resulted in a being dumped in the last week of July this year. During those three months, I was ...

A.   1 November 2011: No,you didn't cheat on her,of course! Don't worry! It was just a misunderstood,and she knows about that and now wants a backup! Friend, women who dump their boyfriends and get changed for other girls in the same time they feel crazy and turn a pain... (read in full...)

I really need a male's perspective on this question...

Q.   This has been bothering me for months now... I am in a great relationship with this guy for almost 6 months now ( we are both in our 30's) and we are very happy together. We were on our first vacation together and it had been only 2 months that ...

A.   31 October 2011: Sweetheart,what your said is a seriously issue,a big problem. I sugest you get out of this relationship! You aint get nothing on dating this asshole!... (read in full...)

Married and cheating but I don't want to put my children through a divorce!

Q.   Ok. Here goes. I am totally depressed. I have been married for 13 years and have two wonderful kids. We haven't been happy in 6 years when I felt he had an affair. He would not admit and still denies but in my heart I know he did. But that's not ...

A.   3 October 2011: You should be careful about this since the beginning,you have kids, why did you do that with your life and your marriage?Unfortunately is over! Now deal with it,make the right decision,listen to your heart and be happy!... (read in full...)

Usually I like being submissive. So how can I step up the face, to be more active, like he wantrs?

Q.   So here goes, my partner of 18 months says he wants me to take on more of an active role in the bedroom eg initiating sex more often and suggesting things I want him to do. The trouble is, I don't know how. Everytime I think about saying or doin...

A.   27 September 2011: Think about! Why don't you play teacher and student? Fantasize about you telling what to do, which part of your body can he touch? Can he do a oral sex in you? What about 69? Use your imagination girl, you can do it!... (read in full...)

My husband had a 2 hr long, intimate conversation with a girl and I cannot believe this is happening to me. What do I do now?

Q.   First of all, I would like to thank everybody that takes the time to answer my question. I would just like to know what people consider cheating in a marriage, or if anyone has been in the same situation. I am 24yrs old, married for t...

A.   21 September 2011: I think you should figure it out about this relationship,if the trust will never go back, then i don't think is a good idea you go back with him!If he talks that promiscuous way with another girl,imagine what he could do if he'd meet her? Just ... (read in full...)

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