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Should I take his advice and leave now?

Q.   hello! ive met the most interesting guy on earth!and he's the smartest human i know! whenever he's in a room every girl would be looking at him wondering do i have a chance? let me start again and tell u everything i know!im into rock music ...

A.   14 September 2009: well if it is worth it to you then go for it... do what makes you happy just be aware of the consequences that can follow if it doesnt go how you hope it will. if you know its worth it and its what you want, then i guess you answered your own ... (read in full...)

3 years and I don't know if I love my boyfriend anymore

Q.   Hi, ok so here is my problem. It sounds strange but I don't know if I love my boyfriend anymore? We've been together about 3 years. We had our ups and downs with a little breakup in between. He was always a little immature and never would lo...

A.   10 September 2009: you shouldnt have to try to love someone. love is a natural feeling not one to be forced... if you dont want to completely loose him then just tell him you need to keep it at a friendship level right now. you should be friends with someone before ... (read in full...)

I'm used to having barriers, and afraid that the next guy won't like me when I let the barrier down

Q.   3 weeks ago i ended things with a guy (guy a)i was seeing (not exclusively)for almost 5 months, he basically lost interest, i had no choice, i didnt want to be strung along, he hasnt spoken to me since. Now, I had just started to really like guy b ...

A.   10 September 2009: your right when you say that if they're worth it they'll know you are. you should be happy and comfortable with who you are and not feel like you have to hide it.. that doesnt mean give them everything and let them know everything right up front. ... (read in full...)

He told me if I left him he'd be a "walking dead person"

Q.   I've been trying to break up with my long distance boyfriend for what seems like a month now...We live in different countries and I'd have to wait a lot of time in order to meet him again. Maybe even a year. I know it's horrible to break up thro...

A.   10 September 2009: someones happiness is up to them. not to their friends family or loves. its true that people should be able to share their happiness with someone but for you to be solely responsible for his happiness isnt healthy. he needs to find it within himself ... (read in full...)

LDR and I wonder if its really love..he cheated!

Q.   If you are in a long distance relationship (south carolina and texas) and he tells you he loves you and you have been together for over a year but he cheated on you once and he realizes how horrible it was and cries about it still because of how bad ...

A.   10 September 2009: try not to get love confused with infatuation.. and even if it is love, that doesnt necessarily mean your compatible or that it will work for the long run... your very young still and have a lot to learn about yourself and so does he. try focusing ... (read in full...)

I don't know how to act around him...

Q.   Long story short, I like this guy that is a few years younger than me and that I have known for the past few months. We went out once years ago and liked each other. We would have still been seeing each other if I hadn't moved away. Four years ...

A.   9 September 2009: just act normal, like nothing happened. if you act awkward or like he bothers you then that will just create issues and make both of you uncomfortable. carry on with your regular day or activities and try dating someone else. if he truly does like ... (read in full...)

Why do you think we keep getting back together?

Q.   Dear Cupid, Around 3 years ago, i was with a girl which i didn't know. She was a friend of my friend in school, I ended up talking to her, and we met up. A few days later we were still meeting up, and going out for the day. I asked her out an...

A.   9 September 2009:  make sure you dont confuse love with infatuation. and even if you do love each other it doesnt mean that either of you have experienced enough in life and relationships to know if it will work. the older you get and the more experience you have ... (read in full...)

Should I take his advice and leave now?

Q.   hello! ive met the most interesting guy on earth!and he's the smartest human i know! whenever he's in a room every girl would be looking at him wondering do i have a chance? let me start again and tell u everything i know!im into rock music ...

A.   9 September 2009: did he say why you should leave or why he is no good???? could be that he has a guilty conscious or that he has low self esteem about mistakes hes made or something like that? either way tho mind games are no way to have any kind of relationship ... (read in full...)

Am I pushing it?

Q.   Hey world, Well my name is angel and ive been talking to this guy and it seemed as if we were getting closer and atuff but now i dont know.We have fight now like couples i talk to him about everything,and anything on my mind.Well yesterday i texted...

A.   9 September 2009: honestly if your already having these issues dont hold on too tight to him. i can promise you that it only gets worse. even if he grows up in some areas the underlying issues dont really go away. focus on being happy without him and if it will work ... (read in full...)

We fight so often about the dumbest things!

Q.   We fight so often about the dumbest things! First of all, the things he has to say about me and how im messing up our relationship is myspace he wants my password to see who i talk to blah blah blah this and that cause according to him i have a ...

A.   9 September 2009: holy shit i cant believe someone has the same issue as i do.. ive been married just over a year and my relationship with him is going down the toilet. he isnt so into porn or drugs but he pays absolutely no attention to my wants or needs or fears ... (read in full...)

I’m completely infatuated with this guy who barely knows I exist.

Q.   Hi all. I would really like some help. I’m completely infatuated with this guy who barely knows I exist. We’ve been texting a lot but when I see him, he acts as if I’m not there. So I’ve now starting doing the same to him and just blanking him. I d...

A.   9 September 2009: Don't be scared to invite him to hang out or get together or something. he may be thinking the same thing your thinking.. granted he may not but its better to find out than to always be wondering. if he doesnt respond to you trying to get to know ... (read in full...)

I miss my ex boyfriend

Q.   Okay so Im in this new relationship I really care about this guy lets call him jay, and my ex I still think about now that im a senior. I really just want to be over him like I cant help but think about him and everything we did and used to do I ...

A.   9 September 2009: If you were in love with your ex you will for sure have a hard time letting go of it. Especially being young its hard to let go of someone who meant so much to you. I've been in that situation too and you have to really consider the reasons why you ... (read in full...)

We have been married 10 months and I still can't have sex with him

Q.   Hi.. I got married in the month of November but not yet had sex with my husband. I love my husband a lot but when it comes to sex when he inserts his finger I feel very painful and stop doing further. He desperately want to have sex with me but im v...

A.   9 September 2009: Before I had sex the first time it hurt like crazy too. Foreplay is defiantly important to get you stimulated and for your nerves down there to be ready for it, you'll defiantly want to make sure your very very well lubricated at first too. But ... (read in full...)

My friends wont accept me for who I am

Q.   I have friends who I don't think I can be friends with anymore. They don't accept me for who I am and I am sure they talk behind my back! I am not good at confronting people. What should I do?...

A.   9 September 2009: If they dont accept you for who you are they arent real friends. If you want to confront them and see if they really care about you then just tell them how you feel. doesn't need to be a fight... or if you cant bring yourself to do that then just ... (read in full...)

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