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I don't feel like his girlfriend any more, I just feel used!

Q.   I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 months now but we have known each other for 6 years as we used to have casual sex, on and off. I have doubts about us as he makes me feel used sometimes and I doubt his faithfulness. It all started when he kept ...

A.   23 May 2010: Bottomline, he may care about you but he clearly wants to keep his options open. You deserve someone that is proud of to show you off, not keep you hidden. He's not being fair to you and it is up to let him know your feelings. If he doesnt change, ... (read in full...)

He hasn't called after 2 months so I've told him I'm seeing someone else (which I'm not) have I done the right thing?

Q.   So, I told him I was seeing someone else because 1. I wanted to let him know that while he was gone, I wasn't stuck on him and 2. that I am worthy of meeting someone who wants to be consistent with me. Thing is, that statement is only half-true. ...

A.   28 January 2009: Nearly four months later and he's still hot and cold. I do love him and he's said over and over again that I mean alot to him, but I can no longer stomach the inconsistency...Just this weekend, I had hoped to see him but, like typical him, he ... (read in full...)

He hasn't called after 2 months so I've told him I'm seeing someone else (which I'm not) have I done the right thing?

Q.   So, I told him I was seeing someone else because 1. I wanted to let him know that while he was gone, I wasn't stuck on him and 2. that I am worthy of meeting someone who wants to be consistent with me. Thing is, that statement is only half-true. ...

A.   3 November 2008: I think I may have aggravated the situation.... I wrote a message to a girl who I suspected he had been seeing. She confirmed my suspicions but said they were nothing more than friends at the moment and that, if I really wanted answers, I shoul... (read in full...)

Is there a chance he will come back?

Q.   Is there a chance he will come back? We were together for five months. For me it was love at first sight and in the beginning he seemed really excited too. Before me, he was in a seven-year relationship, long-distance for the last two, and they we...

A.   12 August 2008: I'm in a similar situation at this exact moment...I even attempted to google a solution to my heartache (lol). I'm glad I stumbled upon your article...Maybe we can help each other; I've been hoping my guy will come back, as well... My guy and I: W... (read in full...)

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