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What should I do? I feel heartbroken and don’t know whether I am in the wrong or he is?

Q.   Please help me gain perspective on this I don’t know what to do. My boyfriend and I don’t live together, although he stays at my flat every night. For the most part, we are very happy together – have loads of fun times out and family times etc...

A.   8 September 2011: Oh and I meant to say - I didn't get verbally abusive with his ex's sister in the restuarant, it was actually after we left that I said to him that she was a rude and ignorant so and so and a few other choice words. ... (read in full...)

What should I do? I feel heartbroken and don’t know whether I am in the wrong or he is?

Q.   Please help me gain perspective on this I don’t know what to do. My boyfriend and I don’t live together, although he stays at my flat every night. For the most part, we are very happy together – have loads of fun times out and family times etc...

A.   8 September 2011: Oh and I am seeing a CBT Therapist. But he is not interested in disecting my relationship as he says he can only help me with things which are not really there (and I think they are) and he feels I have a right to feel insecure in a relationship ... (read in full...)

What should I do? I feel heartbroken and don’t know whether I am in the wrong or he is?

Q.   Please help me gain perspective on this I don’t know what to do. My boyfriend and I don’t live together, although he stays at my flat every night. For the most part, we are very happy together – have loads of fun times out and family times etc...

A.   8 September 2011: I'm sorry i don't mean to come across as defensive but he actually has a very similar way of losing it with me if I do something which makes him jealous. For example, the other weekend we were in a restuarant and he accused me of eyeing the waiter ... (read in full...)

Does my teacher like me? I think he's sending signals.

Q.   Hello i'm in a bit of a predicament. This is of coarse one of those teacher student situations. I know so many people on here are in these, more girls than boys. And i'm sorry to put you through the same old question, and yes. OK my name's Ashlei...

A.   10 August 2008: Hi There Ashleigh I think when we are at school there are some teachers that either have a soft spot for us, or don't. Some teachers may dislike us for no apparent reason, other than there are some pupils they can't help but like and others t... (read in full...)

How can I built up my self confidence?

Q.   Can anyone tell me how to work on my self-confidence and build up my self-esteem so that the next relationship or person that I date, I can believe myself as lovable and therefore make it work?...

A.   26 June 2008: Hi thanks for your good advice - I shall certainly take it on board! I want to get myself out of this negative pattern I have where I date someone and always believe that once they get to know me they'll go off me or that I am in someway so flaw... (read in full...)

Did I do the right thing by breaking up with him?

Q.   Hi i'm in a big big quandry I posted sunday about splitting up with my boyfriend of 10/11 months. He lied to me when i first went out with him as he was living with someone else and only split up from them after we'd been seeing each other for 6...

A.   24 June 2008: how do i stop myself from doubting my decision and turning things over and over in my head? I also feel sad, lost and lonely at being without him, not hearing his voice etc... (read in full...)

Did I do the right thing by breaking up with him?

Q.   Hi i'm in a big big quandry I posted sunday about splitting up with my boyfriend of 10/11 months. He lied to me when i first went out with him as he was living with someone else and only split up from them after we'd been seeing each other for 6...

A.   24 June 2008: Thanks for your reply Tisha- it's made me feel better about things. Sometimes I just need someone to reassure me that I am doing the right thing as my self-esteem is so low it's like as though I don't trust my own decisions. When I met this man... (read in full...)

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