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Was he ticked off with me or embarrased because I said not to sex ??

Q.   Alright guys I have a question. I had a date over the weekend out of town. (He lives like 3 hours away.) Anyway, I stayed there because I didn't want to drive home at 3 in the morning. Long story short, he was supposed to be on duty early the next ...

A.   19 September 2006: I take it you hadnt slept together before, and he was like oh heres my chance hence all the niceties of a half day and going for breakfast etc. he simply didnt get his way so got the hump! Very shallow if you ask me and the fact you havent heard ... (read in full...)

Why is he getting sexual for, if he wasn't in the mood

Q.   I am wondering is this normal? My b/f and I have a happy loving relationship. We are an older couple. He is quite highly sexed for a 56yr old, but has said he loves me to play with him, even if he does'nt 'come'. What do you think he means by th...

A.   19 September 2006: Maybe he just like the whole turn on thing, the closeness, the touching, the carressing, the fact you can be like that with one another and it doesnt have to lead to sex. Have you guys had full sex ? Perhaps the whole build up is what he likes, ... (read in full...)

I am deeply in love with him, but feel that our relationship is eroding oh so quickly...

Q.   I live with a man that I am deeply in love with. We have known one another for coming on a year. We became attracted to one another when we began to exchange emails. In the emails we shared intimate memories of childhood and our marraiges with i...

A.   18 September 2006: Must be tough. Unless you are allowed to talk to him though how can things change for the better ? hes not being fair at all. Have you been allowed to go back to counselling ? That could do you the world of good. Maybe try a last ditched att... (read in full...)

Whenever im intimate with my boyfriend I feel he is very distant,I sometimes feel like a bit on the side!!!

Q.   Well ive realised that everytime me and my bf do something intimite he seems to be very distant after. I spoke to him about it before and he said he didnt realise but its happened again and its making me feel i am being used. I know im not because ...

A.   18 September 2006: Just talk to him again. Ask why he acts like it. He may still not realise he is doing it and to him its not anything at all. Tell him how you are feeling, unless you do he doesnt know whats wrong, let him know how this is making feel, by telling ... (read in full...)

After 2 years together, we dont seem to be into sex anymore with one another, anyone think of how we can spice it up ?

Q.   My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 yrs and we both really care about each other but we just aren't into sex anymore. when we do have sex we are so bored we usually stop b4 either one of us finishes. we've tried new positions and toys but ...

A.   18 September 2006: Thought about dressing up, enacting a fantasy ? Outdoor sex ? Talk to one another open and ask what you both want from this and take it from there. Try running a bath and being sensual together, massing each other, taking the real time and effort ... (read in full...)

He doesnt like sleeping in the same bed as me and I dont know why!!!

Q.   the boy i like feels uncomfortable sleeping in the same bed as me and dont understand why he wont talk to me about it and its proper makein me feel depressed please help me ...

A.   18 September 2006: I think you need to talk to him again. You dont say if you are just friends or if you two are an item ? there isnt much to go on here, So I cant really say for sure why he doesnt want to share a bed with you. Is he maybe too shy ?... (read in full...)

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