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He hates that I help my troubled family! Is he wrong or should I stop doing this?

Q.   I need some advice, I've been in a relationship for the last 11 years I've dedicated myself to my boyfriend always there for him putting up with so much abuse and financial distress. Within the last year he has really changed for the better, but now ...

A.   19 April 2007: Thank you so much your advice it was excellent and helped me discuss the situation with my boyfriend we came to a agreement that there will be boundaries but if the need should arise I will absolutely be there for my family and he understood and ... (read in full...)

My guy friends tell me that I'm a huge flirt and that I confuse them. Should I change my behaviours?

Q.   Telling a friend you don't like him the way he likes you is tough. Most of my guy friends have confessed to me that they like me, but I haven't felt the same way about any of them. Some of them have been cool afterwards, but they seem awkward ...

A.   15 April 2007: Maybe you are sending them mixed signals. Some self-examing would be a good thing to possibly do ask them what in particularly are you doing to give them impression you are intrested in them. However I don't think you should change your personality ... (read in full...)

Am I being too harsh to tell my gf to stop doing this thing that makes me very unhappy?

Q.   My girlfriend is doing something that is making her happy and while im not happy and she wont quit because she loves doing it but it takes a lot of time out of being together but then she says she loves me more than anything... am i being to harsh ...

A.   15 April 2007: No your not being harsh but it shouldn't be like either me or your hobbie try to reason with her and maybe you can come to a compromise. Life is way too short to be unhappy. Spend every free momment together enjoying life.... (read in full...)

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