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Moving away- am I helping or hurting him?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for three years as of yesterday. When we met, we were both employed and I was FT in college, he was PT. 5 months after we started dating, I moved across the city and out of the dorms to live with him. We've now ...

A.   19 July 2012: You aren't being selfish. Do what you need to do for you. If he wakes up and starts relying on himself and realizes what he missed out on that will be good for both of you. But, he needs a reality check and needs to grow up. You cannot help him ... (read in full...)

At the end of my Rope and Running out of Hope

Q.   Not real good at this but I will try . I am 46 and just got a divorce after 30 yrs of Marriage . my ex left me in 2008 and I have been seeing this man who is 50 and retired . I work 5 days a week and then I come home and that is it. he stays with me ...

A.   19 July 2012: Im kinda in the same situation. Talk to him and if nothing changes. Move on. You deserve better.... (read in full...)

I'm worried about my pregnant friend, can someone help me, please?

Q.   dear aunts and uncles, im 15 and really scared for my friend who is the same age. a while ago she started acting really weird like she didnt want to see any of her friends and she dumped her boyfriend who she has been with for 2 years for no reason. ...

A.   19 July 2012: You need to have her talk to her parents and b/f. If not you might have to speak up for her. She is probably scared and an emotional wreck. But, she is pregnant and in 4-5 months she will give birth. She cannot hide that. She is probably ... (read in full...)

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